Inspired by Olivia Dean — I kinda like it when you call me "wonderful".

Talk to me. Do you have compliments you don't like hearing?

"I don't care what anyone else has to say about you. I think you're cool."

That I am so tall.

It's hard for bottom like me to be taller than most tops and I don't like it because most tops will be insecure about that. It messes up my dating life

all of them

"How are you still single!?"

Girl don't ask if I don't have the answer 😭

You look like jesus because of my long hair and beard

i hate it so much

Edited April 27Apr 27 by Glorified

"You're nice"

Idk it just feels devoid of personality and description of who I am and feels basic

My self-esteem rebukes them all.

There's a girl at my uni that always compliment my skin and teeth and I hate it

But were she a hot guy I wouldn't mind

you have a great personality.

"You look younger than you are!"

idk, it feels like a read even when it's not. Was I supposed to rot at 30?

the ones that feel backhanded ofc

"You're so skinny"

Edited April 27Apr 27 by Timeless

I don't take compliments on looks very well. Saying stuff like "it looks like the gym is paying off" or "you look good" doesn't bother me that much, but if you are trying to flirt and you talk about my arms, legs, etc… I just don't like it.

you're good looking for someone from your *insert race, ethnicity

you don't look like*insert race, ethnicity

I hate traveling sometimes cause the amount of microaggressions disguise as backhanded compliments I got

Edited April 27Apr 27 by Odette Violet

Anything about my physical appearance or traits or d. Like *****, I didn't have to do anything about it. It just happened. I prefer compliments about things I've worked on or created instead

"You dont give gay"

My friend told me the other day "oh wow! My friends actually liked you!"

I said, "you know, you have to stop being surprised that people like me. That's kind of insulting."

Now this you're on point with. Today.

being called 'exotic'

"your hair is so… voluminous! I'm envious of its volume! jewfro vibes!"

okay? I get it. I have Jewish heritage, my hair is curly and big and since it's long it stands out. come up with something else. call it pretty or beautiful or anything like that. voluminous feels so f*cking backhanded like you think I look messy and unkempt idk it reminds me of my mom telling me I need to tame my hair and sh*t and that people will look at me funny. a lot of my self-esteem issues really do boil back down to my mommy issues

1 hour ago, Broadcastthatboom13 said:

"How are you still single!?"

Girl don't ask if I don't have the answer 😭

This.

Youre very calm for a chihuahua

Edited April 27Apr 27 by AvadaKedavra

I'm not used to get compliments, so ig all of them? They make me feel weird

1 hour ago, naval23 said:

Now this you're on point with. Today.

You did it.. you're winning.. tonight!