Cheating kink?

6 hours ago, Mythical said:

That's illegal, while cheating isn't

Technically it is because Bigamy is illegal. Not sure about the rest of the world but you can go to prison for up-to 7 years here in the UK for committing bigamy.

And since bigamy is a betrayal of the agreement of monogamy it is in fact; cheating.

Edited Monday at 09:21 PM2 days by mercury.co.uk

I for one hope you find what you're looking for. Everyone deserves a shot a true love. In this house love is love.

That's an oxymoron hoe

Ariana Grande.. is that you?

Are you that stupid? It's called finding somebody with the same kink. What else have y'all been talking about for 4 pages.

every cheat is ethical

On 8/24/2026 at 9:05 AM, Mythical said:

I have a cheating kink. I've never had a bf to cheat on before

Gee I wonder why

Definitely don't date him. You will hurt him in the end. Just find someone who wants an open relationship.

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I think this isn't a kink. This sounds more like a psychological issue you need to address with your therapist

On 8/24/2026 at 6:46 AM, Mythical said:

If you guys aren't going to reply with genuine advice don't reply at all.

Your "kink" is selfish and only involves hurting others. Grow up and seek therapy. Looking for advice on how to ethically cheat is so dumb btw

There is no way to ethically cheat, just like there is no way to ethically betray somebody. The fact that you are so allergic to this basic truth—instead opting to dismiss it as some form of kink shaming—reveals you are not suited for any type of romantic relationship, monogamous or otherwise. Go to therapy. Work to better understand yourself, then reassess.

On 8/24/2026 at 9:13 AM, J-esper said:

No offense, but I don't think you have a kink. The way you describe it, makes it sound like you experienced something which makes you 'crave' to have this behaviour. Like don't take this the wrong way, but have you tried therapy before?

2 hours ago, Bloo said:

Go to therapy. Work to better understand yourself, then reassess.

This is a post internet p0rn world, way more people have developed all type of "taboo" kinks in bigger amounts than ever before.

Majority of the people with these kinks didn't go to any special kind of situation, they found pleasure because of the people/public shaming or society saying is wrong and forbidden, or they simply found the situation to be hot, it's really not that deep.

There are very high changes that what Mythical said isn't exactly truth, as in the cheating kink is true but the boyfriend one part is a lie, and it's simply baiting atrlers for fun.

And also I bet he is touching his c0ck while reading all the people shaming his kink, that's what sometimes I do with my gay incest kink usually will go to read on reddit or any other site or social media shaming the gay incest kink while I touch myself reading because the shaming and the reminder that it's so wrong, it's forbidden just make it hotter to me... and then after some time touching me I will proceed to end the job by watching a gay incest thematic video, or read gay incest erotica storie or a comic or manga.

But If what @Mythical is saying is the truth, and open relationship is out of the question, cuckolding will be your best option, so then go to Reddit in r/gaycuckold or any other gay cuckold site to see what to do. If it doesn't work with him then there are a lot a lot a lot like really a lot a lot of gay, bi and pan men that are very kinky and don't have problem, I found so many easily that are into incest and other type of kinks without even going to any kinky or fetish specific place... literally people from Grindr who obviously don't live far from myself and you don't know If they are kinky or not, and this is with my town lacking in quantity available men, just be direct from the very first day with your kinks, from personal experience most of them won't react bad like at all nor will block you or anything, literally one of the first things I will ask is do you like taboo? And then proceed bluntly to say I like incest, and other controversial kinks, you will find eventually find someone who is the perfect match for the type of relationship you are searching for who is as kinky as you about cheating.

In my personal case I don't want a relationship which it's why I haven't gotten in relationship with any of those men, also because those people outside of the kink I found them boring or lacking chemistry or enough things in common outside the kink which makes the talking very dry after a time. Remember something in common like a kink won't be enough both need to be compatible in other areas too.

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