what's popping *******?! me and my friend got into it with this convo. I need to know what ya'll think!!!

N-E-Ways, a top on Grindr hmu for a quickie. he said to hurry cause his boyfriend is coming from work later.

I am single, so if it a top wants to give it to me, I'm pretty easy ngl.

I believe the top is cheating - NOT ME! I simply want dick. I do not owe anyone else anything. That is on the person that is in a relationship - NOT ME!

Does this mean I am cheater? Discuss!!!

yes you are a ***** and you should be ashamed of yourself. the top is one level beneath you and a ***** too.

No, you're not a cheater but it makes you a pretty disgusting person & one day you will be in the boyfriend role & your man will do This too you.

It's a cycle & you can have standard's. Find a single top! It's not hard

Def an arianator

no you're not a cheater, yes you a ho

Are they in an open relationship? If not, and you’re still deciding to have sex with him, you obviously don’t care. It’s not cheating, but I think that it’s disrespectful.

How would you feel if you had a boyfriend, and he was sleeping with people that they happily went along with it knowing about you? Treat others the way you want to be treated

9 minutes ago, Appletree said:

one day you will be in the boyfriend role

I dont think the OP has to worry about that

No you're fine. You're not a cheater. I can only speak for myself though.

Not your relationship

Not your problem

honestly, itʻs on the person in the relationship to keep it in their pants...

You're fine, you're not cheating.

That relationship that the other person is in won't last, regardless of whether you decide to sleep with him or not. So, live your life and disregard the uninvited imposition of lesser people's moral agenda.

...Vin

Well @Whis got an any advice for the OP?

It's a choice to be morally bankrupt and knowingly be 1/2 of someone's infidelity. The idea that you bear no responsibility because it's not your relationship is delusional, you're part of the problem whether you like it or not.

You're not in the relationship so of course you're not cheating but you should have the self-worth and respect for others to hookup with the millions of single people out there than a man you know is taken.

For that reason, if his bf shows up early and beats your ass, you're gonna have to just take the beating.

The answer is pretty simple.

If the boyfriend came home and caught you, would you feel bad?

If so, it's wrong.

If not, it's still wrong and you're a sociopath.

21 minutes ago, Vin said:

disregard the uninvited imposition of lesser people's moral agenda.

...Vin

Idk what opinions you're referring to bc the opinions in here were invited, he literally asked us to discuss?

55 minutes ago, Xtina23 said:

what's popping *******?! me and my friend got into it with this convo. I need to know what ya'll think!!!

N-E-Ways, a top on Grindr hmu for a quickie. he said to hurry cause his boyfriend is coming from work later.

I am single, so if it a top wants to give it to me, I'm pretty easy ngl.

I believe the top is cheating - NOT ME! I simply want dick. I do not owe anyone else anything. That is on the person that is in a relationship - NOT ME!

Does this mean I am cheater? Discuss!!!

you are not a cheater, but If I were you, would not do it... We all have sh!te morals, but I guess a bit less sh!te

i don't think you're a cheater. whatever's wrong in their relationship is their problem, not yours

no youre not.

If you **** a lot of people, I'd say it's no big deal on your end. But if you're likely to specifically remember this one then idk. The guy is probably doin it with others as well, so you may only share, say, 9-12% of the blame.

14 minutes ago, LoveInStereo said:

Idk what opinions you're referring to bc the opinions in here were invited, he literally asked us to discuss?

We're having fun here. Don't take my words at face value. And it's also a quote from this iconic opening monologue:

...Vin

Edited July 18Jul 18 by Vin

no moral standards don't exist

At least make sure he stream Watch It Burn. The song is dying

No .. but I can't even judge I've slept with my ex this year who's in an open relationship but i'm about to tell him we not doing this because I felt so wrong. Even though she knows of me I don't like it. Plus I prefer to sleep with a guy thats mine and mine only. So no your not the cheater. But if his partner doesnt know about you but you know about them it does look pretty bad on your behalf.