Why are my fellow ATRL sistrens single? Why haven't you locked down your forever D?

I'm single because I'm working on myself (trying to lose weight). How about you?

Because I am in fwb with a committed straight man and don't know what to do

3 minutes ago, FolkLover1989 said:

Because I am in fwb with a committed straight man and don't know what to do

Is the D worth it

Edited January 15Jan 15 by Mythical

2 minutes ago, Mythical said:

Is the D worth it

yes unfortunately

Idk tbh. Probably cuz I'm more focused on myself rn

I don't have the energy or patience required to be a good partner to anyone, I'm kinda self-centered and I get bored of people really easily

Because I never leave my house.

Cause I want peace

31 minutes ago, FolkLover1989 said:

Because I am in fwb with a committed straight man and don't know what to do

Start by respecting yourself.

Because it hurts, the neverending cycle of meeting someone new, imagining, projecting, dreaming, only to realise he is just another man in the end. And the cycle repeats, and Im never loved the way I need to be loved. Hookups don't mean anything. They leave me empty and shrieking for love I need, but don't know how to receive. I see a good therapist, tho

I'm not, been in a relationship for a year now.

Ugly + Fat + Short

My mental health is kind of a mess right now, and I don't want to be in a relationship where I can't feel like I'm not fully commited to the other person, or that I don't have enough to give

Because I hate the idea of commitment to one person

Edited January 15Jan 15 by Lloyd Minaj

I'm too selfish to be honest to change my life for someone

7 minutes ago, pphybrd said:

Because it hurts, the neverending cycle of meeting someone new, imagining, projecting, dreaming, only to realise he is just another man in the end. And the cycle repeats, and Im never loved the way I need to be loved. Hookups don't mean anything. They leave me empty and shrieking for love I need, but don't know how to receive. I see a good therapist, tho

what do you mean heis just another man?

i cant put up with other ppl tbh its too much pressure

Too picky for my own good.

I don't think I've really thought about dating tbh. Does this make me aro/ace

I'm introverted, have social anxiety, I'm not conventionally attractive, and I live in a homophobic country. Pick a struggle

But also atp I'm used to being alone and I think relationships are too much of a hassle. I also despise online dating, and that's basically the only way to meet guys here.

I literally cannot feel romantic attraction. My brain's configuration is simply that

Too lazy

I just broke up with my ex 2 months ago, and currently I'm in talking stage with this cutie... it takes time

Having a man just seem like a inconvenience instead of something that would add something to my life

I also feel like dating today is too fast paced for me. It takes a while for me to develop feelings and feel comfortable with another person. But either they lose interest before that, or they expect me to act like their girlfriend after 1 date and I get scared away.

The thought of having another person around me 24/7 is exhausting. I love being alone most of the time because I can just do my ****. I have friends I can talk to and apps that I can use to satisfy other needs. Maybe someday when I'm not as focused on myself I will go on dates or whatever