I get it but like… just message me lol

no cause they disappear way too fast now 

 

but i love to tap! 

Yeah. I like them. Like, instead of opening the chats and type just to be snubbed, why not just tap them? The. when they tap back then u chat them. If they dont then okay bye unto the next guy. 

It's really useless. Just DM that's it

18 minutes ago, Yawn said:

no cause they disappear way too fast now 

 

but i love to tap! 

 

10 minutes ago, qegqeg said:

I don't even look at them. They blur after like an hour anyway now

lol right. then they have the nerve to charge like $30 for a week. no ma'am

5 minutes ago, BtDecember said:

Yeah. I like them. Like, instead of opening the chats and type just to be snubbed, why not just tap them? The. when they tap back then u chat them. If they dont then okay bye unto the next guy. 

this is a good strategy. maybe i'll start tapping back 

I tap back. I find it really weird when people get upset and start balding over taps demanding people not to tap them It's not THAT serious

usually i just ignore it.

it's not my fault that u're insecure

I choose to ignore taps

 

 

Ignore. In the past I used to message them, but then soon realised most of them just wanted you to click through to their Instagram and follow them. 

Yes but only with a tap back, not a DM. To me it's the same thing as someone smiling/giving someone a look at the bar. I don't know why people get so bothered over them 

I ignore them, if you are interested just start a chat

Everything ok?

i dont know what this means

Profile: Do not tap me or you will get blocked.

 

Me: taps

No. Only one guy I messaged after he tapped because I thought it was awkward because I knew him irl.

usually ignore because they disappear so quickly but also don't get why it bothers some people so much. like it really is not that deep. 

Does grindr work differently in different region or is this an extremely recent update? I haven't used in in like 2 weeks max but last time I did I'm pretty sure the taps were there permanently and did not dissappear?

 

Anyway, yeah usually if I think the guy is nice I'll tap back. If he's really hot I'll text. I don't see the big issue about them. 

Yes, I would respond to anyone who would give me attention. 
This is grindr anyway. I'm just here to f***. I don't need to know what your sign, age, likes or whatever. That's what tinder's for. Are you just down or not?

Am I the only one on ATRL who doesn't use Grindr or any other dating apps?

 

If they're hot 

I think it works, but if you tap at least say hi afterwards. 

 

What's the point of just tapping, then ghosting? 

HATE HATE HATE them

 

literally even just writing "hi" is 100x better

 

taps are giving bot vibes to me even though they're not

If they are hot, I tap them back

if I want to be friends/chat with them, I click the "Hi" tap

I don't tap back, if I don't want anything to do with 'em

 

 

That is what TAPs are made for imo

to test the waters if the other person would like to engage with you..

I don't understand why people get so pressed by taps. They're showing interest so what's the problem? 

 

I'll respond if they're cute. 

Yeah if they're hot, but then again I find the whole idea a bit useless? Like you better just message me, even a "hi" might work