I was tired of being played so I deleted my grindr account and thought I was finally done for good. But it's so hard being celibate especially now in this hot weather. I gave up, and i'm not kidding the alarm clock in my bedroom randomly goes off  LITERALLY at the same time I was redownloading the app, I have an alarm clock that looks something like this :

 

Spoiler

because i always sleep through my phone alarm. Anyway I tried to ignore how symbolic and weird that  felt but literally every single hookup I've tried to arrange since has been sabotaged or a absolute disaster in some way. I just want some d*ck like why is the universe co*ckblocking me like this?  anything that could possibly go wrong has gone wrong to the point I'm gonna have to delete the app again.

 

Have any of yall experienced this level of sabotage from the universe?

 

Same girl, same 

No got rid of the apps and i'm done and sick of men! I'd rather j€rk off 

19 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said:

I was tired of being played so I deleted my grindr account and thought I was finally done for good. But damn it's so hard being celibate especially now in this hot weather. So after a couple weeks I gave up, and i'm not kidding my alarm clock in my bedroom goes off  LITERALLY at the same time I was redownloading the app, I have an alarm clock that looks something like this :

 

  Reveal hidden contents

because i always sleep through my phone alarm. Anyway I tried to ignore how symbolic and weird that  felt but literally every single hookup I've tried to arrange since has been sabotaged or a absolute disaster in some way. I just want some d*ck like why is the universe co*ckblocking me like this? Like anything that could possibly go wrong has gone wrong to the point I'm gonna have to delete the app again.

 

Have any of yall experienced this level of sabotage from the universe?

 

have you tried cruising, saunas, darkrooms, sex clubs etc.?

I mean if you're just looking for a quick **** then there's a million ways

19 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said:

Have any of yall experienced this level of sabotage from the universe?

The Universe rn 

 

I moved recently and wanted to check the area, but I couldn't motivate myself to do anything, so I uninstalled.

Edited June 18, 20251 yr by Nico Robin

not anymore. its just depressing

dating apps peaked in 2018

Not really. I can't see myself doing random hook up anymore. I'll probably die alone since I'm too picky so just bury me with my favorite albums, so I can be a happy gay in Heaven. **** *****…
 

Good Music >>>>>>>>>> Penises

Edited June 18, 20251 yr by Kh-Loud

Gay life hack: If you start working out they all want you 

I have it but my profile is empty and don't interact with anybody except for the ones I already slept with that put me in their favorite list to chat whenever we wanna meet again (I don't have any socials). I only set up my profile when I'm visiting somewhere else and wanna taste local cuisine 

7 minutes ago, sha-nasty said:

Gay life hack: If you start working out they all want you 

I mean, who wouldn't ? lol

No thanks

that app is filled with the most shallow, arrogant and rude people ever. 

What's the difference between "no" and "I used to"? Anyway. Yes, I do.

No, and I would never use it again, to be honest.

 

That app is full of sick and racist people, no matter their age. In my country a 14 year old boy used that app and he was r4p3$d by 3 guys and now he has HIV. 

 

I used it for a while last year and well... all the guys I found interesting were over 30 years old and I really don't think they were looking for a relationship with someone who was 19 years old.

 

I currently meet more guys at the gym or at university than other apps like "Instagram" or this mess "Grindr".

 

Be careful guys. 

Edited June 18, 20251 yr by gwen stacy

Nope, people on grindr are seeking validation and nothing else and that kinda dynamic just doesn't work for me 

 

it's a vacuum for the most emotionally unavailable people going

 

love yourself and delete that ****

No.  After my hookup ripped off his condom and stealthed me on there in 2021, I completely stopped using it.  Men have never respected me, despite me trying to be friendly and accommodating to them over the years.  Now I'm just a bitter misandrist, but obviously I'm human, and I still need to get off sometimes, so I bought a couple of massive toys that I shove up into my sigmoid colon whenever the need arises.  It's not perfect, but it takes the edge off, and gives me the post-nut clarity I need to remind myself that MEN AIN'T SHÍT and I can get off by myself.

 

 

 

unfortunately

1 hour ago, Schami66 said:

have you tried cruising, saunas, darkrooms, sex clubs etc.?

I mean if you're just looking for a quick **** then there's a million ways

The saunas are far away from where I live but you're right my chances of getting good dick there are much higher. The amount of hours I waste a day sometimes  looking for a grindr hookup is just embarrassing 

I use a bear chaser app

Yes way more than I should

nope. it's gross and everyone's thirsty and into bareback. they're entitled as they're ugly and so desperate for validation. 

 

bear apps are much more chill though. Anything is a better option than Grindr.

1 hour ago, sha-nasty said:

Gay life hack: If you start working out they all want you 

It's not that they don't want me, it's just I seem to pick the crazy ones or the timewasters or they are just terrible in bed. I put in so much effort and they do the bare minimum

 

Yes, but I like Recon more.

 

Yes