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Are you good at small talk?

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    • yes
      28%
      12
    • no
      71%
      30

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  • John Slayne
    John Slayne

    it depends, i think i can appear sufficiently friendly and personable if the situation requires it. i have the hardest time with straight people (and men specifically) though as i can never gauge what

  • If I'm mentally prepared and in a situation I'm comfortable in yes

  • scenekiller
    scenekiller

    No, but I'm good at asking a bunch of questions and getting people to talk about themselves so that I don't have to do it    Being a "great listener" can be so beneficial personally and prof

Not at all. In fact, I’m so bad at it & hate it so much that headphones are an essential anytime I am out in public. It deters randos the best, but some are still bold enough to bother you EVEN when your headphones are in… :chick3:

Strangers drain my energy.

 

But there are exceptions, of course. Sometimes you click with the right person. 

I think that most of the time I am and that people seem comfortable while talking to me

  • ATRL Moderator

It depends on a lot of factors: age, gender identity, sexual orientation, etc. I think I'm best with older people, worst with children/teens. Straight men are also fine cause I start with, "So how big is it?" to break the ice.

no, even with people i know. if i dont click w them, i usually dont talk much, small or big.

It depends on if we vibe or have something in common.  But yes I can force myself to appear friendly 

it depends, i think i can appear sufficiently friendly and personable if the situation requires it. i have the hardest time with straight people (and men specifically) though as i can never gauge what they want to talk about and they just seem very alien to me tbh

  • ATRL Moderator

i HATE small talk. if the convo holds no substance i get annoyed.

rarely. someone else needs to carry the convo or we need something in common to discuss… like MPGs :gaycat1:

I don’t like starting the conversation. :penguin:But once I’m comfortable I’m friendly.  

Oh, very. My boyfriend is always surprised at how us latinos (mostly) get along with others so easily right after we meet them, and then a few become some of our very best friends after some time.

Definitely, yes. Not every conversation needs to be a deep philosophical conversation. You can learn about someone and connect over small talk. That's how a lot of friendships are formed, through small talk. It's an important skill to learn, as it relates to being able to effectively communicate with others.

Yes. Didn't know until summer last year when I switched jobs, but it comes very easy to me, and it's not hard to fake interest in what people are saying.

 

It's kinda draining because most of the time I don't even want to be talking to half of these people.

At a workplace? Yes.

 

In reality? Not really. Not impossible, though.

When I have to but normally no since honestly I’m not interested. 

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