I feel like it is debilitating not to have it as a gay in the year of 2026. Thoughts?

No. Hookup culture itself is debilitating.

broke b!tches shouldn't have sex

Absolutely. If you don't spend half of your salary to know when someone gives you a tap, that just means you don't take things seriously and you're not worth my time

We need to reframe the question: why are basic social media features that were present on the app for years increasingly being locked behind a paywall? Like, you try Xtra thinking you're going to unlock the entire grid only to realize that's behind an even pricier tier.

No one is using grindr anymore. Everyone moved on to sniffies and the blowers.

Why the **** would you pay to see some extra profiles that you wont hook up with?...

Girl, just delete grindr and go out of the house. Go dancing, go to a bar or a cruising site, whatever floats your boat. Stop using shite apps like Grindr and Tinder, my god. They are part of the reason as to why so many in this community are individualised and depressed.

3 minutes ago, Distantconstellation said:

No one is using grindr anymore. Everyone moved on to sniffies and the blowers.

That's an American only thing. Everywhere else is still Grindr + local app like Romeo in Central Europe

16 minutes ago, chiaroscuro said:

We need to reframe the question: why are basic social media features that were present on the app for years increasingly being locked behind a paywall? Like, you try Xtra thinking you're going to unlock the entire grid only to realize that's behind an even pricier tier.

Cuz stupid people buy it anyway and it's an easy way for the companies to make money without thinking of any new features

Def no, that app is 70% these days only worth for things like:

Masc x Masc

Lookin for Trans (Straight or married guys)

Looking for Twink or Fem Boy

Bots and fake accounts

The Blowers is the same but at least people there are more 'ready' to do something... sniffies doesn't exist here.

Not in big cities, but to each their own I guess. I would rather spend $30 a month on something more productive, like Dombeeef's onlyfans account or something

32 minutes ago, Distantconstellation said:

No one is using grindr anymore. Everyone moved on to sniffies and the blowers.

Ugh.. the name alone. What self respecting person would use an app called "Sniffies"

No, if you're ugly then no point to have it.

Good looking gays can get hook up without app or extra grindr

not if you are an average to good looking white man

10 minutes ago, Maxxxine said:

Ugh.. the name alone. What self respecting person would use an app called "Sniffies"

Someone who is into cruising and anon easy sex? Its not about sharing your IG page or to talk about how many degrees or what kind of job u have.

1 hour ago, Distantconstellation said:

No one is using grindr anymore. Everyone moved on to sniffies and the blowers.

Question: Can you find a normal hookup on Sniffies? I've been under the impression that's where you find a man to flog and fist you.

I used Grindr yesterday for the first time in forever and it seems kinda dead. It's always dead around here though. Maybe some have migrated to Sniffies. I don't really have a desire to pay for Grindr bc I don't use it consistently.

Absolutely not, I'm getting Unlimited instead.

Edited 3 hours ago3 hr by Faded

grindr died a long time ago, the girls be cruising on sniffies instead

More evidence Madonna is out of touch with gay culture with the Grindr promo.

2 hours ago, chiaroscuro said:

We need to reframe the question: why are basic social media features that were present on the app for years increasingly being locked behind a paywall? Like, you try Xtra thinking you're going to unlock the entire grid only to realize that's behind an even pricier tier.

What?

9 minutes ago, BjorkIsMyMom said:

More evidence Madonna is out of touch with gay culture with the Grindr promo.

And when was Madonna brought up in this thread? Get help

1 minute ago, secretgarden said:

And when was Madonna brought up in this thread? Get help

Don't act obtuse lol, you guys stan hard and defend anything unreasonably and then run to another section to say stuff.

3 hours ago, Distantconstellation said:

No one is using grindr anymore. Everyone moved on to sniffies and the blowers.

And sniffies has the exact same **** where you can't see beyond one mile unless you pay so is it really all that different from Grindr?

I'm sure Xtina finds it essential

no, Xtina should attempt other promotional tactics than to have a partnership with Grindr