For hot ones its not essential. They will attract all types even from 300 kilometres far away

5 hours ago, PicklePower said:

Question: Can you find a normal hookup on Sniffies? I've been under the impression that's where you find a man to flog and fist you.

I used Grindr yesterday for the first time in forever and it seems kinda dead. It's always dead around here though. Maybe some have migrated to Sniffies. I don't really have a desire to pay for Grindr bc I don't use it consistently.

Sniffies isn't a kink site, it's cruising site. You will almost always get just a normal hookup unless you discuss something else with who you message.

I've deleted grindr now, but when I had it I always had extra as I'm not a city centre gay and my grid was always terrible

why are y'all unable to get dick and hole outside of that corny dated app should be the question

just use sniffies

Grindr is actually terrible now for hookups and the prices are disgusting, happily deleted

8 hours ago, chiaroscuro said:

We need to reframe the question: why are basic social media features that were present on the app for years increasingly being locked behind a paywall? Like, you try Xtra thinking you're going to unlock the entire grid only to realize that's behind an even pricier tier.

Capitalism in a nutshell. They bring you a product that is free to use initially, get successful and start making most of its features pay-only once everyone is either hooked to it or believe they need it. That's how they get you to spend ridiculous amounts, and they specially prey on the more vunerable people (in this case, those perceived as 'not standard beauty', disabled people, closeted, etc).

It is one of the most horrendous parts of capitalism.

The app is unusable without the xtra... but the extra is so expensive for this kind of app