to clarify, sometimes! but doesn't someone still have to be the "top" in some situations? like if you're getting thigh ****ed, or I guess most will flip? anyways, it's not as uncommon as you probably think lol 

 

 

 

Edited April 24, 20251 yr by Edonis

I prefer it bc I have rape trauma.

Edited April 24, 20251 yr by YourFavoriteWeapon

No, I like bottoming.  That said, I don't want to be bottoming every day, so all the other stuff can be just as fun too if you do it right

Edited April 24, 20251 yr by Orsay

Yes I prefer it 

Well yes!

 

I like bottoming but for me to really enjoy it I have to be 100% in the mood for it, which is not always the case. I also get way more turned on by kissing and oral (both giving and receiving) so there's that.

No  The idea sounds really boring to me. Penetration is a must 

not permanently but I already do that sometimes like some days I just wanna do side stuff and others I wanna do the typical penetration stuff idk isnt that normal? 

Not a chance, no. I'm going to have urges, at some point, one way or another.

Not a chance, no. I'm going to have urges, at some point, one way or another.

I am a side 

No that sounds boring as hell, love to be demolished

Mostly the gays who are paranoid of hiv aids describe themselves as sides

3/4 of the time I am one so…  yeah

 

love topping too though lol

Starving for d is exhausting so if I was ever in a proper relationship I would probably be a side most of the time for spontaneity and laziness sake  

A hundred percent. I'm talking to a straight guy who's never been with a guy before, and he just asked me if we could f***. He's going nowhere near my rear-end. I'll be a side forever if that's necessary. 

I prefer to top/bottom but my body doesn't always agree with it so I'm more of a side by no choice

I am a side

 

My Last relationship was almost two years, didn't do anal once

 

im sorry but i just dont CAAAAAARE about anal!!! it provides me nothing but anxiety!

Yeah. Anal is just not enjoyable for me. I simply can't visualise the anus as a sexual area of the body. I also don't really enjoy the power dynamics of anal sex. Being a side makes me feel more equal with a sexual partner.

Edited April 24, 20251 yr by glitch

9 hours ago, IBeMe said:

not permanently but I already do that sometimes like some days I just wanna do side stuff and others I wanna do the typical penetration stuff idk isnt that normal? 

It's totally normal, bestie. At the end of a day, you're still a wh*r* 😆😆😆😆 Don't worry and think about it much.

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Idk but I just wanna spam this gif 😭😭😭 it's become an unhealthy addiction

 

Edited April 24, 20251 yr by David_Greengrass97

YES! 

 

Bottoming is really not worth it to me and being a top? Girl I stan Pokémon. 

I practiced side fun for a few years but it does become a bit boring

I've been forced to be a side because my bottom boyfriend bamboozled me and doesnt want to bottom anymore so theres ******* that

7 hours ago, Rino said:

I thought this was about being a side piece and came in ready to shout YES 

this

 

That's what i am, and for a community hell bent on being accepted for who you are I see a lot of people bitching and moaning about us sides

3 minutes ago, MattieB said:

That's what i am, and for a community hell bent on being accepted for who you are I see a lot of people bitching and moaning about us sides

PREACH!

 

The side slander, especially on Twitter, must stop.

 

That's why BlueSky >