SIDE (according to Urban Dictionary): A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, frottage, mutual masturbation, etc).

Already am 

Yeah but not for randoms or guys I'm not looking to be in an rship with.

I have yet to enjoy penetration either as a top or a bottom so I guess I already am 

Is it a real thing? I just thought that's what "straight" guys on grindr put on their profiles when they're secretly bottoms. 

No thanks, I need to get bred and breed…

the only thing i like being

Oh so that's what that means

yeah, bottoming is exhausting omfgggg

not exclusively because I really enjoy topping but I'm already a side in around 80% of all my hook ups, so 

haven't enjoyed bottoming in years....basically am a side who enjoys topping when it's available 

I thought this was about being a side piece and came in ready to shout YES 

Oh 100%

Depends on my mood but yeah I don't mind

No. I wanna be bred. 

Sure for the right guy 

No because im not just some cheap who*e to be used and then ignored.  

As a general rule no, but circumstantially if anal is given a miss I don't see it as the end of the world.

Side is awesome. Penetration sucks.

My best friend said once, there's a shortage of tops and that he'll become a side because he can't be arsed. I do have to say that my husband and I enjoy foreplay more than the penetration itself, and although we are both vers, I guess we do enjoy oral and foreplay more than anything so I understand why people would be 'side' nowadays

Sometimes, I wonder if having a V and a strap would be easier 

Edited April 24, 20251 yr by Baby Dancer

I thought this was about being a sidechick for a married men and i was ready to say YES

i think i prefer to be a side. in theory im a **** for cock but in practice, nothing is getting penetrated