This is a space for bisexuals to come together, share our experiences, and discuss the unique joys and challenges of our identities.

 

Whether you're looking for advice, solidarity, or a place to share your journey, you're welcome here.

 

 

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I'm closeted bi, irl I'm basically a straight man, a few know what they know, but I've mostly done girls more than men

 

I personally haven't fully come out because I don't wanna ruin my opportunities with women, but if I found a good man I would definitely adapt my life to him.

 

My experience has been easy because if you navigate as a straight man you don't have to deal with a lot of **** normally gay men do

 

But sometimes, especially in the night I found myself wondering how would it be the life fully with a man.

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What's the definition of bisexual though? I've had plenty of sexual experiences with women but I've never developed any deeper feelings, felt an emotional attachment or wanted to be in a relationship with any woman in general. That's why I consider myself gay. Or am I bisexual but not bisensual if that makes sense?

Meh im too sissy was an older bi but it did turned out that i DON'T want to date women smh

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4 minutes ago, dumbsparce said:

 I've had plenty of sexual experiences with women

Then you're bisexual

6 minutes ago, Carla Rosón said:

Then you're bisexual

Ok but why did you downvote me?  Genuine question. I just laid out my honest experience without disrespecting anyone.

Bisexual people are the hottest people

20 minutes ago, dumbsparce said:

What's the definition of bisexual though? I've had plenty of sexual experiences with women but I've never developed any deeper feelings, felt an emotional attachment or wanted to be in a relationship with any woman in general. That's why I consider myself gay. Or am I bisexual but not bisensual if that makes sense?

If you've enjoyed sexual contact with women in the past then you're bisexual. Youre probably just homoromantic if that makes sense which doesn't negate your bisexuality.

44 minutes ago, Trent W said:

I'm closeted bi, irl I'm basically a straight man, a few know what they know, but I've mostly done girls more than men

 

I personally haven't fully come out because I don't wanna ruin my opportunities with women, but if I found a good man I would definitely adapt my life to him.

 

My experience has been easy because if you navigate as a straight man you don't have to deal with a lot of **** normally gay men do

 

But sometimes, especially in the night I found myself wondering how would it be the life fully with a man.

I have the opposite problem, I feel as if I come across to women as not straight so they either assume I'm gay and automatically shut any romantic possibilities down or they're not attracted to/turned off by that. Subconsciously I also suppose that's stopped me from romantically pursuing women because of the fear of rejection

 

I've started putting a bit more effort into dating (guys) recently and I've received comments from more than one person that I give off straight guy energy, as someone who grew up with the typical gay kid experience this is a total mindfuck to me and has me questioning things 

Just now, gm4567 said:

If you've enjoyed sexual contact with women in the past then you're bisexual. Youre probably just homoromantic if that makes sense which doesn't negate your bisexuality.

Yeah this makes sense. I can finally wear my favorite t shirt now!

 

 

hi  i'm in 

11 minutes ago, Mordecai said:

I have the opposite problem, I feel as if I come across to women as not straight so they either assume I'm gay and automatically shut any romantic possibilities down or they're not attracted to/turned off by that. Subconsciously I also suppose that's stopped me from romantically pursuing women because of the fear of rejection

 

I've started putting a bit more effort into dating (guys) recently and I've received comments from more than one person that I give off straight guy energy, as someone who grew up with the typical gay kid experience this is a total mindfuck to me and has me questioning things 

I understand what you mean, but if you are into women I would recommend at least to try to date once or twice to see what you feel like, at least try.

 

I will also be honest, dating women in 2024 is a nightmare tho, especially meeting them online in apps. In person might be a better start but still they are more annoying to date than men.

 

Dating men is more effortless and these days if flows easier than with women

 

I've posted several times in this forum about it, the dating scene has changed over the last few years

Edited December 31, 20241 yr by Trent W

life kinda sucks when you're the effeminate kind of bisexual man I am cause I feel like girls never f*cking like me  but we carry on! or whatever

The hostile posts in here already. 
 

But yeah, I definitely lean more gay, but I've had more bi tendencies as I've gotten older. It's been interesting to see my sexuality evolve with time.

I kiss girls when I'm drunk so I don't think that counts but I support y'all lifestyle.

13 minutes ago, Trent W said:

I understand what you mean, but if you are into women I would recommend at least to try to date once or twice to see what you feel like, at least try.

 

I will also be honest, dating women in 2024 is a nightmare tho, especially meeting them online in apps. In person might be a better start but still they are more annoying to date than men.

 

Dating men is more effortless and these days if flows easier than with women

 

I've posted several times in this forum about it, the dating scene has changed over the last few years

I did have a girlfriend in high school but I constantly had to deal with the 'are you gay' accusations, I felt bad for her tbh

 

In my (limited) experience thus far dating isn't too bad, but I cannot deal with guys who don't know what they want and constantly play the fwb card  Not really in a place for a relationship atm which is why I haven't been dating as much but I know what you mean

 

13 minutes ago, JoeAg said:

life kinda sucks when you're the effeminate kind of bisexual man I am cause I feel like girls never f*cking like me  but we carry on! or whatever

preach

3 minutes ago, Mordecai said:

I did have a girlfriend in high school but I constantly had to deal with the 'are you gay' accusations, I felt bad for her tbh

 

In my (limited) experience thus far dating isn't too bad, but I cannot deal with guys who don't know what they want and constantly play the fwb card  Not really in a place for a relationship atm which is why I haven't been dating as much but I know what you mean

 

preach

literally like… I've actually had more official girlfriends than boyfriends but in the past few years? barely anything. i've hooked up with more guys than girls in my entire life but idk. I don't know what's such a turn off about me but we carry on I guess  I'm not gonna suddenly stop being effeminate ever so I guess if girls don't like that it's annoying and frustrating but eh

Not in my household, but I support you!

especially if you're hot

I have fully transitioned from straight to bi to gay, and I can confirm my bi days were the best! 

 

57 minutes ago, Trent W said:

I will also be honest, dating women in 2024 is a nightmare 

Please let this incel mentality go

Edited December 31, 20241 yr by Carla Rosón

8 hours ago, Mordecai said:

I have the opposite problem, I feel as if I come across to women as not straight so they either assume I'm gay and automatically shut any romantic possibilities down or they're not attracted to/turned off by that. Subconsciously I also suppose that's stopped me from romantically pursuing women because of the fear of rejection

 

I've started putting a bit more effort into dating (guys) recently and I've received comments from more than one person that I give off straight guy energy, as someone who grew up with the typical gay kid experience this is a total mindfuck to me and has me questioning things 

That basically happened to me. Currently engaged to a guy but he and everyone in my gay circle knows I'm bi. My circle is very accepting with it and my past 2 gfs and my ex-fiance ( also guy) never acted negatively towards it. I think gen zs openness to queer identity has helped.

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Just now, Ryan said:

Yesss my fave kewchie eaters!

I didn't know you were bi too