My boyfriend is currently at my place. We just did the deed, it was very romantic and hot. When we climaxed, he said 'only that little?' which has made me very insecure.

I take finasteride which makes me you know what less, meanwhile he's like a fountain. I'm very selfaware about this and even looked into taking supplements to boost. I feel like he exposed one of my insecurities.

Next week he'll be in a different city for 4 days and stay at a hotel. I told him, as a joke, 'you better not go to the gaysauna there' to which he replied 'oh let me look up if there is one over there'. He laughed, but actually I'm triggered now. Should I tell him about this? I don't think he'll meet up with others in the other city, but I have an urge to install grindr to check. I'm so tired.

Dump him and find a new bussy for yourself

Make it look like an accident

Don't be insecure if your heart is pure

next time you nut you need to suprise squeeze mayo into his face

Yes. Command the respect and set the expectations now king

can ATRL as a collective take this boyfriend somewhere far away so we don't have to hear about him

yas giiirl

pee on him next time then

Ew c*m is messy and gets cold so fast and looks like puss. The less the better.

I actually didn't realize gay men could get insecure about that.

Just now, GAGAISTHEBESTYA said:

pee on him next time then

Orrrrrr

Just now, PicklePower said:

Orrrrrr

"let him pee on you"??

Have you considered killing him?

I lost my phone in Amsterdam, it's 5 AM

Just now, GAGAISTHEBESTYA said:

"let him pee on you"??

Orrrrr

How long have you been together? If it is not a long term relationship maybe it's better to end it. You should have a serious conversation with him regarding this and let him know your are tired of him disregarding your emotions. It's not worth chasing after someone that does not respect you.

1 minute ago, PicklePower said:

Orrrrr

we both pee on each other???

1 minute ago, GAGAISTHEBESTYA said:

we both pee on each other???

We'll go with that

enough already

please become asexual xo

coming to ATRL after having sex

he needs to deal with all that and he doesn't even get any l0ad in return? #TeamBF

Keep dating him, get ready to enter your most delusional era in history, then release a folk album pretending your boyfriend contributed anything to it. Later on start being publicly annoyed that the man that you chose to date and who was boring to begin with, is in fact, and to the surprise of nobody, boring, and publicly mock his insecurities and mental health issues. Meet with Jack Antonoff and let him produce your next albums. Don't forget to write a song about wanting to be spitroasted in clubs while you still publicly date your boyfriend and if you have the budget, shoot a Cinderella inspired MV for it. Once you've had enough of the humiliation ritual, go one step further and delude yourself that after all of this, he will marry you. When he ultimately doesn't propose, cheat with the ugliest drug addict you can find, leave him and embark on the highest grossing tour of all time.

I think any man that conflates the volume of your load with the level of your enjoyment is dumber than a bag of rocks, that **** is so juvenile & corn brained. I've encountered that mentality when I was single and went on hookup apps & I couldn't get out of those situations fast enough. If a person can't understand I'm cumming for my pleasure & not for theirs, I don't want to have sex with them. That's an extremely controlling partner, can't even withhold critiques on your orgasm