i get a lot of looksmax videos recommended to me , because im 27 and gay and the algorithm recognises that im trying to turn back the clock ( im an ageing twink ) , a lot of looksmaxxing stuff kinda is just general grooming and , in that sense i find the whole calling it ' looksmaxing ' to be cringe but i will admit , they've put me onto a few stuffs and things .

recently ive started brushing my eyebrows upward with eyebrow / baby hair gel , it works wonders and changes your entire vibe , makes your eye area way more in tents . you just have to be careful not to get a gel with a lot of shine , so your brows still look natural and not laminated doing a cowlick on your eyebrows will have you looking ready for the runway literally …

also , using jet black beard dye to darken your eyelashes . seems so small and insignificant but i took a before & after pics and it's such a subtle but impactful change .

eyelash curler - never too masc to have an eyelash curler … it works WONDERS . subtle but essential ,

also for healthy looking vibrant lips , using a lip stain / lip mask . i use the NYX Lip IV Lip Stain . dont use the elf version , it develops crust around your lips and only lasts about 20 minutes , the NYX one lasts for hours , i loe it . ( loe = love )

also my barber recently put me onto curl activating cream for hair . i was always anti - product in hair but now i can't leave the house without some curl cream .. it's so damn good .

please share any more tips you have , i would be interested to hear how other gays are hiding their under - eyes and nasal folds as that's something im struggle with . ( concealer didn't work well for me )

grooming?

Not (looks)

Just now, RideOrDie said:

grooming?

i added the (looks ) in title last minute becaus i realised how bad the title sounded

19 minutes ago, May said:

because im 27 and gay and the algorithm recognises that im trying to turn back the clock ( im an ageing twink )

@Bitter Aging Twink could probably give you some advice.

Is anybody going to post any tips

1 hour ago, May said:

because im 27 and gay and the algorithm recognises that im trying to turn back the clock ( im an ageing twink )

If the men you meet are less attracted to you now that you are 27, maybe it's just time to stop hooking up with ped***iles.

19 minutes ago, May said:

Is anybody going to post any tips

the roof is closed

2 minutes ago, Night Howler said:

If the men you meet are less attracted to you now that you are 27, maybe it's just time to stop hooking up with ped***iles.

are you trying to hook up with me ?

Drink 3 litres of water, get 8 hours of sleep, go to the gym 3 (or more) times a week. Get a basic yearly health checkup and get supplements for whatever is required. Eat plant-based.

Put sunscreen on your face.

I do eye patch for under eyes in am and pm for 20 min.

If hairy, trim areas down some (6mm arm/legs, ass 2 mm, upper arms 2mm, if body allows (doesn't itch like a mo FO, sorry chest.

haircut every 4 weeks

the end.

6 minutes ago, May said:

are you trying to hook up with me ?

I don't think anyone on this site is trying to do that with you, and judging by your desperation, it doesn't seem all that different outside this site either.

1 hour ago, RideOrDie said:

grooming?

Ur going straight to hell

Get a job that makes six figures. There's nothing sexier than a man with a LARGE bank account.

Edited June 7Jun 7 by Onyxmage

19 minutes ago, Night Howler said:

I don't think anyone on this site is trying to do that with you, and judging by your desperation, it doesn't seem all that different outside this site either.

if you want me , send a face pic in DM

It is genuinely shocking how many people just walk around with dry, cracked chapped lips like its normal. You need to exfoliate your lips people. Literally just brush them after your teeth, it couldn't be any simpler.

11 minutes ago, fountain said:

It is genuinely shocking how many people just walk around with dry, cracked chapped lips like its normal. You need to exfoliate your lips people. Literally just brush them after your teeth, it couldn't be any simpler.

this was lowkey me until recently .. i naturally have pale lips too becaus i dont drink much ( i have about 600 - 800ml of liquid a day ) which is why i wont leave the house without my lip stain on now .

I just cleanse, moisturise and wear sunscreen. The rest is up to God (so I wear a cross daily to impress him)

do you mean gloomy like sad looks. cause WTF is grooming

1 minute ago, HyuneSuga said:

do you mean gloomy like sad looks. cause WTF is grooming

girl , what you mean WTF is grooming , WTF is gloomy like sad looks

Just now, May said:

girl , what you mean WTF is grooming , WTF is gloomy like sad looks

2 hours ago, May said:

makes your eye area way more in tents .

brokeback mountain teas

I have also gotten into lipstains, lately. The Ulta Weightless Water lip stain gives a very subtle, natural color without looking like you're wearing any lip products.

tbh idrk much of any tips or recommendations but what worked for me was starting to work out about 3 years ago (not only does it improve the physique and subsequently make you feel more confident, but it also just makes you feel good from the inside iykwim), focusing on maintaining a diet and its coordination with the workout regime, following a skincare routine (nothing too extensive/fancy atm. just basic CSMS), getting a haircut regularly, using an antiperspirant and cologne, and then other small stuff here and there like trimming my nails regularly, doing the brows (but making sure to not overdo them), eye patches.

but it's good to know that you're taking care of (and focusing) on yourself