How do y'all deal with it? Anyone ever try to catch a feel? Or stay away from it. What do you recommend in this situation

Talk about politics with them.

Just give into the feeling and seduce him.  When he flips over and you see his unwashed hole you will fall out of love immediately.

lol

I stopped being interested in straight men entirely at a certain point, I guess I just don't entertain the idea of being with a guy if I know he's straight?

Just put yourself down and know that you will never ever get with a straight man

I just fall in love with them and they never want me back but sometimes you do still get the D but then he tells you his girlfriend can't know and acts weird for a few days and then the cycle repeats

Remember they probably don't wash properly and there's probably some basic household tasks they're completely incapable of doing

28 minutes ago, Taylor fanboy said:

Talk about politics with them.

He said he's never voted republican in his life 

39 minutes ago, Bitter Aging Twink said:

Just give into the feeling and seduce him.  When he flips over and you see his unwashed hole you will fall out of love immediately.

i can actually attest to this

 

had a crush on a straight friend, and at a game of truth or dare i got dared to go into the bathroom w him and rim him - that **** was CRUSTYYYY and hairy. it put me right off him.

with alll due respect this should end after high school

I'm mostly not at all attracted to straights and even then a lot of 'straights' are not really straight. 

2 hours ago, May said:

i had a crush on a straight friend, and at a game of truth or dare i got dared to go into the bathroom w him and rim him - 

I find straight men so overwhelmingly unattractive, sure a minority of them have nice faces and know how to shower, but then they open their mouths and it's just like… any ounce of sexy just completely vanishes… just like that Scientology chick

Most straight men are just gross. 

2 hours ago, Kissyface said:

I stopped being interested in straight men entirely at a certain point, I guess I just don't entertain the idea of being with a guy if I know he's straight?

Basically all it takes is actually meeting other men who are interested in men - most likely after high school - and no longer relying on media stereotypes to realize gay men usually have way more going for themselves anyway and can actually return the attraction lol. Gay men who catch feelings for straights after a certain age are cringe. They will never want you and they're not even worth it to begin with. Love yourselves.

Most straight men don't even wash their crotch properly, let alone their ass. Love yourself!

story of my life 

 

straight guys are just simply hotter 

Same way when I catch feels for gay men or taken men 

I don't feel love with straight or gay men anymore. I'm asexual rn 🌚

It's only natural for it to happen. It's just about being honest with yourself and the situation. Accepting that reality is what I do; at which point, I'm able to just avoid feeling that way further. I've had to teach myself how to not care and avoid catching and maintaining feelings, for better and for worse. Realistically speaking, it can take a psychological toll after so long within a certain context. Being able to develop healthy relationships is conducive to emotional well-being and maturity; and my growth has been stunted, honestly.

Just stay away. I do think its inevitable and fine to have slight infatuation for straight men, after all the whole point of being gay is to be attracted to men and the majority of men are straight, but to let it develop any further than that is an immature mistake to make. You have to be emotionally mature enough to understand that it isn't realistic and nothing will happen, and even on the very small chance that something does happen, with time you'll only come to realise that it would have been better if it hadn't. Straight men are eye candy, and that is all. And like many others in here have said, the more you find out about them the more unattractive they actually become. 

They are not interested in you. Try looking for a straight-acting gay/bi man if that's your type. 
 

2 hours ago, Sabrina Carpenter said:

story of my life 

 

straight guys are just simply hotter 

Not necessarily. Not all straight men are hypermasculine. That's rather a common stereotype. There's plenty of straight men who are rather effeminate. 

The few times that's happened to me they always end up doing some **** that's turns me off completely. So just wait because that will happen. 

Just don't. 

 

It will hurt you.