I'm feeling very rejected right now. This guy has been giving me mixed signals for months but it's now come to a point where for my own mental sake I have to take the L and begin to move on from him. Us working in the same place certainly doesn't help.

 

How do you deal with rejection in times like these?

 

 

move on and hop on the next dick fr

 

It sounds like you didn’t even directly pursue anything to even be rejected from 

I know my worth. It's never my loss, and I say that in the most humble way. Rejection sucks, yes, but it's a natural part of life. I'm not for everyone and everyone isn't for me. There are people in this world you shouldn't even want to appeal to. And, truthfully, if someone is giving you mixed signals—they aren't into you all that much to even start with. There won't be any misunderstandings if someone worth being with is interested in you. Speaking of mature adults, anyway. I, myself, don't have time for the games when I'm doing just fine by myself.

You just move on to the next best thing. Simple as that!

Still trying to figure it out since May  been sleeping a lot more. But hey, as long as you feel all this feelings and know that something better is coming, you’re in a great path!

I don't

People who play mixed-signals games are the worst. Not even worth your time tbh!

 

But yeah, my way of dealing with rejection is just to cry it out a little bit, remember that I'm far from the only person in the world to be rejected, and then move on. It sucks, but you're definitely not alone. 

Happened to me when I was 22. Unfortunately time can only heal that awful feeling of being rejected. Just make sure you are busy with something to occupy your mind. Eventually you will feel great! Good luck.

Getting rejected means that you've at least taken the first step towards building a healthy relationship/friendship/connection. Each time you do this, you're increasing the odds that you find one that is perfect for both you and the other party. Getting rejected means you're living life to the fullest, which is something that most people will never do. It's going to work out eventually 

i ask them if they wanna fight 

for every closed door lies an open one somewhere better

It's natural to me, I'm Hispanic so...

Maybe you're too good for that person? Is it rejection or is your path being cleared for the love you deserve?

I don't put myself in a situation where i can be rejected because i don't take it well. 

well thats great if nobody wants you, you’re free

Accept it and move on, we can't control how others feel  it's sad but true. Also remembering rejection is part of life and will inevitably happen tons of times help.

feed your ego

 

having a big ego helps with rejection 

I have learnt that when someone rejects you, it's them fault and they aren't worthy

imo just focus on what makes you happy to keep yourself from thinking sad thoughts about that situation. you’ll be surprised how quickly you’ll move forward with your life by investing in your own happiness which will lead you to putting yourself out there again

Literally just move on and value your own worth. 

hire a hitman!

Understand you cannot control other people's choices

Rejection is redirection.

I engage in self destructive behaviour