I hate it. Especially when it's people who are passive aggressive and then after they try to get their point across, they give you a little pat on the back.

 

 

 

 

 

 

It depends. Touched where? 
 

Where it's sensitive yes

Generally yes but I also come across as stoic and cold eek so don't get as much as I'd like

4 minutes ago, Devin said:

Tell me something girl 

By who exactly? 

After a certain level of closeness is acheived, yes. 

5 minutes ago, David_Greengrass97 said:

By who exactly? 

My boss...

Well yes 

Only by loved ones and friends
 

Sometimes in the gay world, people can be way too touchy. Just the other day, I was at a party and some guy came up to me, he wouldn't stop touching my arm while talking, and it made me really uncomfortable. And don't even get me started on the number of guys who think it's okay to grab your ass. Sometimes I just lose it and straight-up tell them: Do. Not. Touch. Me.

Edited May 15, 20251 yr by Space Cowboy

no and don't look at me either 

Reading the thread title,

all I can think about is intellectual disability.

 

 

Guess it's a southern thing.

 

 

...Vin

4 minutes ago, Magic_boXX said:

My boss...

You're so like me, gworl. I don't like that neither. But remember, you only do what your duty is about, don't bother to care about them. Of course, you can ask for help or discuss with your colleagues how to do that. But then, if your work gives you too much stress, I think you need to find a new job. I don't encourage you're doing now. I'm only saying that don't let these tiny things affect your mental health and your productivity at work. 

5 minutes ago, Space Cowboy said:

Only by loved ones and friends
 

Sometimes in the gay world, people can be way too touchy. Just the other day, I was at a party and some guy came up to me, he wouldn't stop touching my arm while talking, and it made me really uncomfortable. And don't even get me started on the number of guys who think it's okay to grab your ass. Sometimes I just lose it and straight-up tell them: Do. Not. Touch. Me.

Thats literally would be the worst thing when random people think its ok just to touch or grab you. This is why I tend to stay away from parties and bars because of the fact I'm a magnet of hands.

9 minutes ago, David_Greengrass97 said:

You're so like me, gworl. I don't like that neither. But remember, you only do what your duty is about, don't bother to care about them. Of course, you can ask for help or discuss with your colleagues how to do that. But then, if your work gives you too much stress, I think you need to find a new job. I don't encourage you're doing now. I'm only saying that don't let these tiny things affect your mental health and your productivity at work. 

It doesn't affect my work(thank god). Just when we are having business meetings he always at the end squeeze my shoulders or pat my back and I legit just freeze in awkward place. It's not only him though, staff members as well. Sometimes I think its just me, I dunno. 

Edited May 15, 20251 yr by Magic_boXX

13 minutes ago, Magic_boXX said:

It doesn't affect my work(thank god). Just when we are having business meetings he always at the end squeeze my shoulders or pat my back and I legit just freeze in awkward place. It's not only him though, staff members as well. Sometimes I think its just me, I dunno. 

May I ask if you are a new worker in that company? Or the youngest? I think they just try to encourage you, idk

Generally, no. If it's someone I'm close with, then I'll accept it.

Yes. I'm secretly very mushy and gentle and affectionate.

Edited May 15, 20251 yr by Biggie

Don't even need to touch me

baby, just

breathe on me

 

1 hour ago, Vin said:

Reading the thread title, all I can think about is intellectual disability.

What do you mean by this

 

actually I meant to say no

 

I hate being touched and cuddled 

 

everytime guys message me saying I miss cuddling next to you i'm like please go away

Not when it's someone random, or someone I don't like all that much, touching me. It just makes me uncomfortable.

26 minutes ago, Smarticle said:

What do you mean by this

 

In the South (in the United States), when you say, "Oh, darlin', he's been touched," it means that person has an intellectual disability.

 

 

...Vin