idk if it's the truth about Grindr but it's very much the truth about human nature... "hit it & quit it" is a biological reflex in a lot of cases in my opinion, to make us "distribute our DNA" in the gen pool with no strings attached

I find it normal human behaviour that you might wanna have sex with someone but in no way spend any time with them outside of the bedroom. We've all been on both sides of it.

Saying "the door is that way" is of course rude and part of that weird little AI story's "drama" (eye roll), but you can say something like "actually I'm more interested in keeping it strictly physical" or "yeah sure let's do that sometime" and then never text the person again if you're a coward.

But yeah, nothing to do with Grindr but everything to do with human nature and trust me, the str8s go through the same **** lmao

It's not just grindr. Maybe not as rude as the example provided but "left on read" after a hook up is a universal experience among people who are attracted to men

Imagine catching feelings for grindr trade... Some people are really weak

Grindr is so 2018

I think that we need to accept that most men don't wanna date and just hit and run.

Been chatting to this cute guy I met on grindr for a while now and met up with him a couple of times as well, no problems. I think some of you guys are just bad at this

6 minutes ago, PumpkinTim said:

Been chatting to this cute guy I met on grindr for a while now and met up with him a couple of times as well, no problems. I think some of you guys are just bad at this

This. If it’s just a hookup, that’s all it’s gonna be. But if yall talk outside of that there’s nothing wrong with asking the question.

Btw my last 5 dudes i’ve dated came from Grindr.

Bottoms tend to be clingy.

The truth about hookup culture, yes.

not in my experience i've dated many great guys from grindr and we still talk to this day