I have that woman at work who is usually nice to me, sometimes waaay to nice and welcoming but I found out she's taking about me behind my back. She said I'm slow and that I'm like our worst coworker but 20 years younger and with hair this is not the first time obviously but I feel like I have to do something about it cause wtf

Kill her

**** that *****

Honestly, if you can document evidence of her doing this, you have the right to go to HR.

Otherwise, focus on results. Those always speak more than anything anyone will ever say about you. Keeping your head down, being consistent and delivering on what you've said you'll do, and keeping things moving is always preferable to getting caught up in the drama so many coworkers create.

DM if you wanna chat, I deal with politics at work all the time lol

Nothing.

Workplace is supposed to be a place where you work, not making friends.

That's why I will never fucck my colleague

How could you not take that personally?

What I've learned about workplace gossip: nobody is gonna believe what she says at face value, the only concrete info she's given your coworkers is that she is a **** talking 2 faced bully nobody can trust. Let her keep digging her own grave, she's showing ppl who she is & nobody will be listening to a word of what she says in due time. Ppl like this are never content with just 1 target, she's probably talked crap about loads of you

sounds like the real problem here is you

3 minutes ago, ryoncé said:

sounds like the real problem here is you

Are you her? Can you stop talking **** and be on time at work more often?

14 minutes ago, LoveInStereo said:

What I've learned about workplace gossip: nobody is gonna believe what she says at face value, the only concrete info she's given your coworkers is that she is a **** talking 2 faced bully nobody can trust. Let her keep digging her own grave, she's showing ppl who she is & nobody will be listening to a word of what she says in due time. Ppl like this are never content with just 1 target, she's probably talked crap about loads of you

It's true that people said she's usually talking **** about people but the problem is I'm mad as hell about it! It's like my actual work is for nothing

Mm I'm not sure if this is the best advice, but people will think what they think. She doesn't pay your bills and what she sees isn't what your management sees if you've been doing your best.

go to hr

I just want to say that it's ******* terrible you have to deal with it. People who make others work lives difficult or uncomfortable are literally scumbags imo.

Document everything is my best advice, don't retaliate because it just gives her ammunition.

Don't! If it stops your bags, it's always personal.

Your reputation is under attack. Protect it.

Edited June 30Jun 30 by Taylor fanboy

Gift her a 1432 vinyl, the sonic destructive power should be enough to take her out

Just take the high road and ignore her

By remaining unbothered she will just look bad in the end

Sometimes people will gossip behind your back because they want you to over react and quit the job

Remember she don't pay your bills so who cares what she thinks

Give her something to REALLY talk about and top her husband

Smoke some weed, be kind to yourself and remember that your well-being should never be dictated by people from work.

Or confront her in an educated way. "Hi Pigleesha, I heard what you said about me and I don't think it's appropriate nor professional to create this sort of environment at work. I am open to your feedback as long as it's respectful…" most people can't handle being direct, I think she will be gagged if you handle this calmly and assertively. She won't stop talking **** about you, but at least she will be more conscious about not telling people who will tell you.

OR… find someone to **** her. Maybe she needs it bad. People who get laid don't do all that.

collect some dead cockroaches and casually slip one in her bag every now and then

Sleep with her husband (oop someone already said that okay then her son)

Edited June 30Jun 30 by Onyxmage

the posts here are so helpful and funny I already feel better and I don't think I care about ha anymore

**** that miserable *****

What you are sharing IS personal

Battle for your life

Record her and then report her to your boss for hostile work environment

Or ignore the first part of you not about that life and just confront her

people probably hate her anyway cause she sounds annoying and two faced

If she has no actual power over you then just ignore her