Since the Lounge is now nsfw than ever, I want to ask a question I've always been curious about... For those of you who are exclusively tops, what do you look for in a man? As for a vers guys, obviously, vers are the ones who enjoy it the most in every way. A bottom, well, he's getting what he wants; he feels good being dominated and d*icked down. But for people who are exclusively tops...

Why are you only tops? what makes a man different from a woman? Do you really like it?

This question is full of stereotypes, but in my personal experience, as a vers, I always find that tops want everything to be shaved, for you to be submissive, for you to be feminine like girl, **** a girl or something then

im not a Top , so i dont know

13 minutes ago, goverm3nth0ker said:

A question for tops only

Don't forget the fem tops

11 minutes ago, goverm3nth0ker said:

Since the Lounge is now nsfw than ever, I want to ask a question I've always been curious about... For those of you who are exclusively tops, what do you look for in a man? As for a vers guys, obviously, vers are the ones who enjoy it the most in every way. A bottom, well, he's getting what he wants; he feels good being dominated and d*icked down. But for people who are exclusively tops...

Why are you only tops? what makes a man different from a woman? Do you really like it?

This question is full of stereotypes, but in my personal experience, as a vers, I always find that tops want everything to be shaved, for you to be submissive, for you to be feminine like girl, **** a girl or something then

As a bi top....the last thing I want is that ( not that there's anything wrong with that). Most of the bottoms or vers I've gotten with are masculine or neutral. Sub bottoms to me are boring. The best sex is when both participate. Having one do all the work is just dull.

Just now, Reginald said:

Don't forget the fem tops

I believe that's a blouse

18 minutes ago, goverm3nth0ker said:

Since the Lounge is now nsfw than ever, I want to ask a question I've always been curious about... For those of you who are exclusively tops, what do you look for in a man? As for a vers guys, obviously, vers are the ones who enjoy it the most in every way. A bottom, well, he's getting what he wants; he feels good being dominated and d*icked down. But for people who are exclusively tops...

Why are you only tops? what makes a man different from a woman? Do you really like it?

This question is full of stereotypes, but in my personal experience, as a vers, I always find that tops want everything to be shaved, for you to be submissive, for you to be feminine like girl, **** a girl or something then

Those tops are just acting "like a top" because they think life is porn.

I'm a top because I don't like my ass played with like that and that's it

And in my boyfriend I look for: understanding, communication, mutual trust, similar interests etc

Edited April 2Apr 2 by Kern

As my current relationship has shown, I am looking for understanding and the ability to listen to each other.

I've had a lot of bottom partners who threw tantrums, played manipulative games, and couldn't even articulate what they wanted from interacting with me or from the relationship, or didn't fully believe in it themselves. This leads to a desire to withdraw from the interaction.

1 minute ago, Anora said:

As my current relationship has shown, I am looking for understanding and the ability to listen to each other.

I've had a lot of bottom partners who threw tantrums, played manipulative games, and couldn't even articulate what they wanted from interacting with me or from the relationship, or didn't fully believe in it themselves. This leads to a desire to withdraw from the interaction.

That's another thing, it's a common social assumption that the bottom is the one who ''suffers'' and the top is the one who makes mistakes, when I've seen bottoms who are just as crazy, abusive, and unfaithful

im a top & I like my bottoms hairy, hung (idc i still wanna suck a big dick) and preferably masculine. I mean we can queen out when needed, but i like men who look and act like men

Masculine, hairy, fit (not a gym bunny), 40+ aka my boyfriend

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"What makes a man different from a woman" took me out. What makes a person different from a pocket ***** or a Fleshlight? Sorry but I'm too stuck on this part to engage with anything else you said. People are more than their holes & their poles

2 minutes ago, LoveInStereo said:

"What makes a man different from a woman" took me out. What makes a person different from a pocket ***** or a Fleshlight? Sorry but I'm too stuck on this part to engage with anything else you said. People are more than their holes & their poles

that user is just trying to learn and understand. No need to drag them for it

I'm not attracted to women at all

A thread only for chart-toppers? Damn, sorry Kats.

Attraction to men and ass wants to remain untouched

Well, if Sniffies is anything to go by, they all want a straight man.

I simply don't enjoy bottoming so I'm a top lol

IDK, I just enjoy feeling the warmth of it. And a big ass is just an incredible thing to experience. I could do it all day.

As a top, me man; bottom, woman, obviously. So, I like my bottoms hairless, submissive and knowing when to go into the kitchen

12 minutes ago, DevilsRollTheDice said:

27 browsing and 0 typing...

7 minutes ago, Kern said:

that user is just trying to learn and understand. No need to drag them for it

I'm not attracted to women at all

Sure, I put it bluntly, but the inference in the OP is that being a receptive partner in sex somehow makes you equivalent to being a woman & that is ignorant & I don't believe that sugarcoating that is gonna help them understand that. You're not gonna have fun sexual encounters navigating the world with these draconian, outdated, antiquated notions of what sex means. I love being gay because we've broken out of the matrix straight people are stuck in where gender roles predicate everything. Let's not leave the box only to trap ourselves in another one

1. Hairy ass is a plus so don't find women attractive

2. I prefer to be in control vs being controlled

3. I prefer my bottoms to have pecks vs boobs

13 minutes ago, LoveInStereo said:

"What makes a man different from a woman" took me out. What makes a person different from a pocket ***** or a Fleshlight? Sorry but I'm too stuck on this part to engage with anything else you said. People are more than their holes & their poles

as i explained in the last caption, my experience with ''tops'' only (most of them closeted, discret or curious) they want you femenine, delicate, sub all shaved and expect you to be all cleaned and stuff and ik out there there's a lot of gays that make me thinks they are looking for a puss1 instead of an ass

and like used kern said, im just learning

16 minutes ago, Mitsouko said:

Masculine, hairy, fit (not a gym bunny), 40+ aka my boyfriend

don't forget yvette ender

OT : i always wanted to know how exclusive tops do it, every time i've topped a guy it was boring as hell and i couldn't feel much… like i get the psychological side of ******* a guy and some being more dominant etc. but to me man hole just feels like a bad handjob

I like feminine guys but in a quiet sort of a way not in a loud flamboyant sort of a way

Hard masculinity is mostly a turn off for me. I dont like it for myself either. I definitely have unconventional tastes, my best friend calls me a lesbian

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