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I'm sorry but it's incredibly traumatizing for women to get into a commited relationship with a closeted gay man, let alone having a long term marriage.

Expecting women to be cheerleaders for their husbands discovering their sexuality is bonkers.

15 minutes ago, slowednreverb said:

If he enjoys the sex why break up? If so he's bi.

But if he can't get it up I can see how humiliating and torturous it must be for him. Platonic love isn't enough for marriage unless it's lavender or asexual.

There comes a point in life where a new challenge is simply not worth it anymore. He'll regret it so much for sure. Especially like I said if he can have a sex life with his wife.

Unless he has to imagine a man while having sex with her there's absolutely no reason for him to break up.

Also breaking up would be incredibly selfish after 20 years. I don't have any sympathy for anyone ruining their long time marriage to "freely be themselves". At that point f*** freedom and f*** therapy, what about the wife's mental? The guilt tripping by these people is crazy too, that's why I have zero sympathy for them.

Breaking up must be absolute last resort in his case.

well he wrote "We have challenges finding time for sex and dating due to life things but we make it work. All in all, pretty solid"

so i guess he can still get it up

Uhmm?

Just now, Pikachoo said:

well he wrote "We have challenges finding time for sex and dating due to life things but we make it work. All in all, pretty solid"

so i guess he can still get it up

At some point in marriage people stop having sex altogether anyway so he's being such a repressed brat. He might as well sleep around after the wife enters menopause.

1 minute ago, slowednreverb said:

At some point in marriage people stop having sex altogether anyway so he's being such a repressed brat. He might as well sleep around after the wife enters menopause.

i wanted to respond "i think you should just cheat and get it out of your system" but i feared becoming the @Kukai of r/AskGayBrosOver30

Just now, Pikachoo said:

i wanted to respond "i think you should just cheat and get it out of your system" but i feared becoming the @Kukai of r/AskGayBrosOver30

I mean that's not a bad advice. He should get it out of his system or at least figure out his sexuality before ruining his marriage.

So many men cheat on their wives as a part of their work routine.

He can't be so sanctimonious on cheating but ruining a whole 20 years of marriage over discovering himself

That's traumatizing for anyone in the receiving end btw, I'm not singling out gay men.

I'm not that against cheating with escorts in long term marriages. Just be careful to not project it into the relationship and most importantly the sexual health.

Women's sexuality is different than men's. A woman cheating signifies different things. Women do enjoy casual sex but they don't find instant gratification in cheating like men do. The only acceptable scenario is if the woman is a girlboss who travels for work.

I hate cheating don't get me wrong, the only acceptable scenario is as I said is apart of the work routine. Some professions are notorious for cheating for this reason

Edited March 29Mar 29 by slowednreverb

1 hour ago, Pikachoo said:

Married 45 year old man wants to leave his wife of 20 years that he still loves and has sex with, because he's determined through therapy that he's gay.

what would you do? I low-key want to comment that he should just stay with his wife. especially if he still loves her and has a sex life with her. what does he expect to find in the gay community?

thoughts?

Reddit is such a kii with the way people just be spilling their business

Imagine expecting artists, athletes, pilots etc to not cheat... It's common sense at this point.

Here's a hot take for you guys to chew on all for the love of opening a conversation

Edited March 29Mar 29 by slowednreverb

42 minutes ago, slowednreverb said:

I'm sorry but it's incredibly traumatizing for women to get into a commited relationship with a closeted gay man, let alone having a long term marriage.

Expecting women to be cheerleaders for their husbands discovering their sexuality is bonkers.

The plot of Grace and Frankie is crazy for this reason.

It's mind programming for women to just accept s*** from men and to be further emotional laborers.

I'm not against women's freedom to cheat either. Honestly if men cheat so should women. It's just that women themselves don't cheat for the same reasons as men do

I'm just making observations.

So don't take my opinion for being against women's promiscuity.

Also, anyone bears the right to not forgive a cheater no matter the motive. Don't take it as me implying anyone should stomach cheaters.

I'm for non-traditional relationships so consider that when reading my opinion

Edited March 29Mar 29 by slowednreverb

Anyone who is now ridiculing open relationships and polycules etc when the pendulum swung back to conservatism never had their heart in it anyway.

NO ONE'S FUN ANYMORE!!!!! WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO FUN!!!!!!

So many people postured as progressives but p*ssied out the moment mainstream narrative swung back to traditional values. Like in the case of Taylor and The Life of a Showgirl... UGHHHHH!!!!!

Edited March 29Mar 29 by slowednreverb

1 hour ago, slowednreverb said:

I'm sorry but it's incredibly traumatizing for women to get into a commited relationship with a closeted gay man, let alone having a long term marriage.

Expecting women to be cheerleaders for their husbands discovering their sexuality is bonkers.

Wait Taylor has never wrote about this topic. It would make the lives of her boyfriends even harder phew imagine the speculations it would create it would be epic she should do it!!!!!!!! I'm sure one of her exes is bi or gay so it wouldn't be a total lie either well hellooo John Mayer and Andy Cohen!!!!!!

Edited March 29Mar 29 by slowednreverb

Bebe Rexha is to obese for pop

This page

How will Miley exploit Hannah next now that she's back to a flop again

I don't wanna be mean but I saw the thumbnail and I was like wow... when did this happen?

10 hours ago, suburbannature said:

Oh he was so fine

She was pregnant with ARTPOPGa

she was digesting artpoop lbr!

If Gaga went through this humiliation ritual post ASIB and the result was Die With A Smile and MAYHEM I wonder what Katy's results will be for 143 😭

2 hours ago, GraceRandolph said:

i know the Lana dishes probably tastes like swamp water and cigarette butts and the Ethel plate tastes like a burnt spoon and a used syringe

All the Electro RnB on Sasha Firece actually eats very hard - Diva, Single Ladies and the electro pop masterpiece SWEET DREM and mega Bop, Radio. It really gets drag down by all the snoozeeeewsss, which consist of more tha 70% of the album..

PRISM narrowed down to 10 tracks is kinda serving pop bible

1. Roar

2. Legendary Lovers

3. Unconditionally

4. Dark Horse (feat. Juicy J)

5. Ghost

6. Love Me

7. This Moment

8. Spiritual

9. Choose Your Battles

10. By The Grace Of God

like AN ALBUM