I will never make another thread again about my lovelife

Edited October 15, 2025Oct 15 by Whis

you have to be a troll atp cos there's no freaking way 🤣

3 minutes ago, Whis said:

So my boyfriend and I are very happy together

The lie of it all  

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I told him "I don't believe in open relationships" to which he replied "well it's not for you to decide what's right or wrong, or what's real or not real". He also once told me "a relationship is an agreement between two consenting adults, whatever works for them works for them and for us an amazing monogamous relationship is working but that doesn't mean that it's the only way to have a relationship".

He's right 

He's cheating on you and he's trying to justify it with the open relationship talk. you better steal his phone and check his DMs sis

4 minutes ago, Whis said:

So my boyfriend and I are very happy together,

Literally minutes before:

 

 

what is the problem exactly? if I understand correctly, he doesn't want it but you keep bringing it up cause it makes you uncomfortable that he had an open relationship before? are you worried he might cheat on you?

This feels like a messy wattpad series at this point 

maybe seek some therapy?

 

this isn't normal behavior

8 minutes ago, Whis said:

I told him "I don't believe in open relationships" to which he replied "well it's not for you to decide what's right or wrong, or what's real or not real". He also once told me "a relationship is an agreement between two consenting adults, whatever works for them works for them and for us an amazing monogamous relationship is working but that doesn't mean that it's the only way to have a relationship". 

He ate you up

i love your therapy session 

Different values. 
 

Not going to last.

Just learn to live with it because you will never leave him

2 minutes ago, Trip said:

maybe seek some therapy?

 

this isn't normal behavior

I've been prescribed ritalin

1 minute ago, Whis said:

I've been prescribed ritalin

How is that going to help with the insecurities if I may ask ? 

 

It's a drug helping to deal with ADHD. It's not going to poof any deep rooted trauma away.

Edited October 15, 2025Oct 15 by Soul Grabber

Do you have a tendency of overthinking/overanalyzing too much and it gives you mixed signals where you are always unsure? 

You first have to ask yourself, "Why do I feel bothered by the idea of an open relationship?" Is it more than you thinking they aren't real relationships? Have you been cheated on or do you get jealous? To you it isn't ideal but open relationships are just as real as monogamous ones.

 

You should look into what monogamy is rooted in to better understand why it makes sense to you. I am someone who personally wouldn't partake in an open relationship because I do not have that kind of energy to balance multiple love interests but I have friends who can. It's all up to the person on what works for them.  

He's back y'all

 

Edited October 15, 2025Oct 15 by MonsterFandom

It doesn't matter how much you leave each other. This will not work. Both of you are in the right. This is a boundary for you and you shouldn't have to do something you don't want to do for the sake of "saving" a relationship, and he doesn't have to stop wanting an open relationship for the sake of you not leaving. I do want to say something though... That's not how you approach wanting an open relationship. It requires intentional communication, emotional maturity, and clear boundaries. You should leave this relationship now. Both of you deserve to be with someone that wants the same thing out of the relationship.

Ofc its you

Girl you're absolutely right. Just break up with him before he cheats on you

The way I feel like a 3rd person hostage in this most likely concocted ragebait of a relationship. Free us

Sheesh, sis.  In order to catch any of your threads, one must arrive within 10 minutes of it being posted, or else it gets re-titled to:

 

 

2 minutes ago, ohjulia said:

It doesn't matter how much you leave each other. This will not work. Both of you are in the right. This is a boundary for you and you shouldn't have to do something you don't want to do for the sake of "saving" a relationship, and he doesn't have to stop wanting an open relationship for the sake of you not leaving. I do want to say something though... That's not how you approach wanting an open relationship. It requires intentional communication, emotional maturity, and clear boundaries. You should leave this relationship now. Both of you deserve to be with someone that wants the same thing out of the relationship.

Did you even read what I posted? He told me 100 times he doesn't want an open relationship and his ex wanting one is one of the reasons why they broke up