I can't understand why you still have privilege to open thread

Don't let them silence you

no yall made him delete it  

The way I knew it was gonna be you as soon as I read the title…

 

Girl. This is sad.

2 minutes ago, Whis said:

Did you even read what I posted? He told me 100 times he doesn't want an open relationship and his ex wanting one is one of the reasons why they broke up

so then whats the problem

 

Can someone send the now-deleted text? Whis atp i hope he cheats on you for deleting the shakesperian literature that you put out for 5 minutes!

girl it wasn't even 20 minutes i wanted to read it

20 minutes ago, Patient Zero said:

He's right 

!!!! literally… that's a sensible thing to say.

Not deleted

We want to read the original scripture!

23 minutes ago, Patient Zero said:

He's right 

so is he asking for an open relationship or...? i can't believe I didn't make it in time

dont let them silence you sis. i actually like your threads. even if some hate on it just ignore them!

Edited October 15, 2025Oct 15 by KatyPrismSpirit

4 minutes ago, Démodé said:

so is he asking for an open relationship or...? i can't believe I didn't make it in time

No but he defends them

8 minutes ago, Démodé said:

so is he asking for an open relationship or...? i can't believe I didn't make it in time

No, the boyfriend is not asking for an open relationship. But he was in an open relationship before and defends the idea of an open relationship, because adults can choose whatever works for them. And the boyfriend is right imo.

The boyfriend "defending" the idea of an open relationship is very triggering for the OP.

 

Edited October 15, 2025Oct 15 by Patient Zero

You're extremely insecure and, I'm sorry to say, it must be tiring for your boyfriend. He broke up with his previous bf because he didn't want an open relationship, yet you're worried because he defends the concept of it?

 

Genuinely, you need to work on yourself and the trust issues you have. It's no way to live and enjoy life. 

I missed it 

I'm afraid that you're just lacking a big part of a relationship which is TRUST  i'm sure it'll be the best for both of you if you just go on and trust his word instead of going on paranoid rants on Absolute Total Request Live Dot Net...  

47 minutes ago, Whis said:

I will never make another thread again about my lovelife

When it's revealed you're actually doing all this to annoy the admins enough to reinstate the hide button and you become a folk hero, oh Whis

44 minutes ago, Katamari said:

no yall made him delete it  

someone should have copied the entire post and reposted it  it's what i did last time he posted. 

32 minutes ago, Patient Zero said:

No, the boyfriend is not asking for an open relationship. But he was in an open relationship before and defends the idea of an open relationship, because adults can choose whatever works for them. And the boyfriend is right imo.

The boyfriend "defending" the idea of an open relationship is very triggering for the OP.

 

the boyfriend IS right. but OP is overly paranoid in this situation. his mind is wandering to bad thoughts. last time he posted, he said the BF was moving away, so that must make the insecurity worse because he's not able to be with him at all times, so there's nothing to allay his restless mind.

 

defending open relationships isn't a crime. if he is showing signs of actually pursuing  another relationship then that would be understandable, but there's no reason to be so paranoid. 

 

sorry to OP but i don't think this will work. because the boyfriend won't be able to do anything to get OP to feel secure. 

1 hour ago, Whis said:

I will never make another thread again about my lovelife

Sis ignore the haters and continue to get your venting out on here as needed.  We're here for you. 

Keep the threads coming girl I love it

41 minutes ago, Whis said:

No but he defends them

I defend them too, but I would never get into one myself because it's not for me.

42 minutes ago, Whis said:

No but he defends them

and this triggers some insecurity?