I feel like this is more relatable to gay women but that ONE feeling when you see a hot girl.

Edited July 8, 20233 yr by réveuse
Grammar mistake.

dozens of online am i gay quizzes from like 13-15 

14 minutes ago, WildAmerican said:

dozens of online am i gay quizzes from like 13-15 

Taking those "Am I gay, Am I lesbian" quizzes were a fever dream.

11 hours ago, Cryptique said:

I feel so attacked 

 

-Can I Ask you a question?

-Men's underwear photos

-girl friends

-feelings toward male friend

-not into sports

-loving female characters/icons/popstats

Me in a nutshell 

13 minutes ago, réveuse said:

Taking those "Am I gay, Am I lesbian" quizzes were a fever dream.

always at like 1am too 

the first page

Having a harder time dating because you didn't figure out relationships in high school  

10 minutes ago, Riverbank said:

Having a harder time dating because you didn't figure out relationships in high school  

This 100% 

 

We're either in the closet because of living in a homophobic area,or we're out of the closet and still single AF because it's rare to find a guy your age that is also queer AND attracted to you as well.

“I’m focusing on school”

Not understanding how people can miss high school/their teen years because you graduated and NEVER looked back 

Walking faster than everyone else 

Edited July 9, 20233 yr by -brian

I'm surprised no one mentioned this because its so common but I haaaated going to barbershops. They are so intimidating/uncomfortable.  

On 7/8/2023 at 9:46 AM, Orsay said:

 

idk about universal but this image from the cover of Rolling Stone did something to a lot of gays around my age who were preteens at the time  

I’m not even exaggerating when I say this specific image made me realise I was gay.

 

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This thread made me realise I’ve never had a single original experience

sucking your straight friend’s D and having him ignore you once he gets a girlfriend 

Not using urinals seems to be a common one

STEALING thongs from the store.  And PLAYGIRLS from the newsstands. 

- Feeling awkward when you’re invited to sleepovers so you try to keep as much space between you and your friend while sleeping in the same bed. 
 

- Trying not to look at your friends when you all watch **** during the sleepover and comment on how big the woman’s coconuts are.

 

- Getting gay panic if anyone suspects you of liking someone you actually like

 

- Spending all gym class with your female bestie and claiming you both have cramps

 

- Monitoring every inflection of your voice, body language and walking to not “give” anything away 

 

- Picking girls in video games

 

- Posters of female pop stars in your room and having your dad think it’s for dirty reasons when it’s not 

 

- Gay panic if anyone wanted to use your phone or computer and not remembering if you cleared your history or not 

 

- Realizing how alone the “out” gay kid must have felt knowing he/she/they shouldered everyone’s jokes & ugliness while you watched in silence (or joined in)

 

- Realizing how courageous that out gay kid was and wishing you could have been there for him/her/them

 

- Not participating in your football or wrestling team’s gay ass behavior

 

- Watching wrestling for the “sport”

 

- Liking gymnastics but not being able to do it because it was considered “girly” by toxic men 

choosing dance as your preferred sport of choice 

waiting for your friend to come out of the girls bathroom and hoping nobody thinks you're just being a creep

As I was gay-walking the street earlier today, listening to Move>Heated and wondering about why gay people walk so fast, I saw a guy walking towards me. I was sure he’s gay. I mean, he walked three times faster than everyone around him, like he’s in the rush. And as he came closer I recognized him from Grinder. So, yeah… we walk faster