a man who doesn't drink much alcohol, doesn't smoke, has a puppy like personality, big ass is a plus, I like light brown hair, don't care if you're fem or not, a stable job, career goals and maybe a kid down the future.

 

I'm tired of being single.

 

same, check my dm ;)

 

except my man can have a vice like smoking, that'll make him more sexy.

Edited November 12, 2025Nov 12 by fememeist

I'm sober, have a job, and brown hair 

 

if you can deal with mental instability, then we're a match made in Heaven 

 

I have a issue with relationships. Because I like being alone. But at the same time Im sometimes feeling lonely. Kinda don't know what to do with it 

Same  

 

maybe you should hit up @Whis !

6 minutes ago, suburbannature said:

I'm sober, have a job, and brown hair 

 

if you can deal with mental instability, then we're a match made in Heaven 

 

I'm quite certain the OP is too old for you 

4 minutes ago, BlueBlue said:

I have an issue with relationships. Because I like being alone. But at the same time Im sometimes feeling lonely. Kinda don't know what to do with it 

I absolutely hate relationships. I've forced myself to try them because I felt like I was supposed to, but I always feel constrained and end up fleeing.

 

I think it's perfectly fine to accept that you prefer being single, but your second statement does lend itself to a bit more (e.g. issues with commitment) so may be a good thing to explore first.

Just now, smartalek22 said:

I'm quite certain the OP is too old for you 

You ain't **** for this

 

i'm in an older men phase atm

not this being nearly me whew

I'm better alone than lonely here with you. 

ok good luck 

i think we ALL need a man 

 

25 minutes ago, suburbannature said:

I'm sober, have a job, and brown hair 

 

if you can deal with mental instability, then we're a match made in Heaven 

 

 

18 minutes ago, suburbannature said:

I absolutely hate relationships. I've forced myself to try them because I felt like I was supposed to, but I always feel constrained and end up fleeing.

 

I think it's perfectly fine to accept that you prefer being single, but your second statement does lend itself to a bit more (e.g. issues with commitment) so may be a good thing to explore first.

you're a hoe just say that

 

1 minute ago, Smarticle said:

 

you're a hoe just say that

 

I personally do not need a man, for some reason like, I feel good where I am. I don't have time for games, I don't have time for a quick hook up, I choose not to indulge in the energy it takes to obsess over somebody especially somebody that isn't obsessing over me. The porn I watch is quality. The music I listen to is quality. The songs I write are quality. I had so much sex in my late teens and early 20s I am retired. No way José.

I drink, smoke cigarettes and weed, have a cat-like personality, a medium tight ass, dark brown hair, masc with a sprinkle of fem, an unstable job, and have zero desire to have children

 

Wanna go on a date? 

just get a dog

Sounds like u have a race/ethnicity preference 

I've been so single forever 

 

I don't want to spend the rest of my 20s single 

 

If anybody wants a clingy stoner pianist my DMs are open 

Spoiler

that's literally me   

and yes I need a relationship too tbh. I feel like going through life & being lonely for a significant part of it  is truly such a waste...I know they say it's good to be ok with being alone but at a certain point it just becomes detrimental. I think MOST ppl can't be fulfilled if they dont have a life partner and if they are right now then they will come to regret not having one at SOME POINT. Obviously a major generalization but again I think this is the case for most not everyone.

Edited November 12, 2025Nov 12 by IBeMe

Me too but I just want an Asian boyfriend.