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Do you still find D.M.F's threads funny?
The overwhelming numbers for "no" in the poll
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Have you ever gone on a Grindr date/drink?
80% of my dates when I was single were from Grindr. I had to dig through a lot of profiles to find them though
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How long had you been with you bf when you decided to open up your relationship?
I've been with him almost two years, and we opened our relationship at about 18 months (so recently). He comes from a circle of friends who are all open and they looked at him like he grew a third eye when he first told them we were exclusive ddd. I was his first closed relationship. He recently took a big trip with his friends and asked me if he could dance with someone else. I told him I don't care if he does and honestly wouldn't care if he did more than that (I'm not a very jealous person). That prompted some dialogue about opening it up for just the trip to see how it goes. When he got back, we discussed the trip and how both of us felt about either closing it back up or keeping it open. We currently don't live together and thus don't get to see each other as often as we'd like. Plus, his libido has been all over the place after starting a new medication. This all weighed into our decision to set some boundaries and be open for a while to see how it goes. It's been too soon for me to really say how it's going (I only just got back on PreP and was unwilling to do anything with anyone until I resumed it), but so far it's been fine and if anything it's forced us to have more frequent conversations about our relationship and how we're feeling. Also, no offense to the gays in the apps but good lord it took only a few looks through the grid to develop an even greater appreciation for my relationship. It's rough out there ddd. We might stay this way, we might not. But for now it's going well. I will say that neither of us is particularly eager and anxious to go out and sleep with other people, but it's at least an acceptable option on the table if the opportunity presents itself.
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Taylor's new heavily promoted song is out of the Top 100 of Spotify. Why?
Given the commercial performance of all her other soundtrack songs, it's done very well and I think most girls would be thrilled with a similar chart run. There's really not much to drag
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The HQ Thread | 2026
The avi the persecution complex im sorry but it's camp
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The HQ Thread | 2026
I will never get tired of this place
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How often do you go clubbing?
About once a month - a little more often in summer and a little less often in winter.
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Arca - XXXXX LIVESTREAM
The crooked screen
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Arca - XXXXX LIVESTREAM
no shade but when her hair falls over her face she's kinda serving The Grudge I'm bopping tho!
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2026 US Midterms Megathread 🇺🇸 Dem Primaries: GA & SD (7/28), MI (8/04)
Sure doesn't! But I love how you're framing this concern like a question to provoke discussion when we all know you will, in the spirit of how you always do things around here, completely disappear and not engage with anyone who responds to you. Like why do you even post ddd
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Where do you guys go to get decor/furniture
Depends on the item and your budget. If you're looking for cheap / bargains, a combination of Etsy (rugs especially), vintage stores (can be pricey depending on the item, but if you look hard enough you'll find good stuff at a steep discount), and Facebook marketplace (this one is probably the best. you have to constantly be on there to find the good stuff though). I use the big expensive brands like Herman Miller, Modernica, and DWR for inspiration and then use dupe.com to find something similar. I also found this brand based out of Singapore (but they ship to the US) called https://lofthome.us/. Some of their stuff is a little expensive but I was really happy with the few things I got from them.
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Was it shortsighted of Taylor to threaten Dan and Olivia?
Given her and Olivia's continued silence, I personally think Taylor is not very innocent in this scenario. But some of you speak on the credits situation with far too much confidence, when all we can really do is assume what happened based on context clues. No one actually knows what happened, and no amount of gossip on Reddit will change that.
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The AI "hot guy" pandemic
I'm can still identify most of them, but the second their accounts are completely indistinguishable from actual people, I'm logging out and never going back
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Andy Cohen with boyfriend
It's been an hour and I'm still thinking about this comment