For those who are unaware, it's a gay app that specializes in BDSM/fetish play. I'm only asking because I've met a lot of gays, like myself, who unfortunately met a lot of scary people on here irl, people that very clearly use being "kinky" as a guise for actually being abusive. I always get worried when people I know download it because not only is it a shitty app in general but there's a lottttt of shady characters on there. I would say a good 40% of people on that app are covert or aspiring serial killers, I remember even hearing a guy in Canada used it to lure his victims. I have vivid memories of finding it right when I turned legal and being intrigued by it because I considered myself a bit too kinky for the average Grindr user (still do tbh but a lot of it was due to low self esteem), but it led me to meeting some VERY scary people. I also feel like it attracts a lot of people with mental health issues that shouldn't be treated with the specific type of sex you find on that app

Thankfully I've been in a very loving and happy monogamous relationship and am completely done with the apps and hookup scene.mp3 but I won't lie and say that a lot of experiences I had on there didn't scar me for a while bc they definitely did

Sure have. I've had a couple of fun experiences with guys I've found on there.

that sounds like hell & i'm a kinky person

I used some years ago, but never was brave enough to actually go out with someone that i met there.

And it's also annoying how 90% of the dominant guys these days are into findom, including straight frat men who found a niche in it and basically took up that space. Like dude i won't give you money for you to shove your feet down my throat leave me alone

Edited August 25Aug 25 by Lady Claire

was like 4 years ago spoke to a particularly hot daddy on it but got so many messages from old hardcore kinksters from random parts of europe and my immediate grid was local gays i from grindr i had no interest in….dont think i'd meet anyone from it

Had it for about a week out of curiosity. Saw a message
at night and was like: I'll reply to that in the morning. By then
they'd send another rude message Deleted it then and there

I still have the app downloaded and do use it sporadically (or at least I did until they changed the interface to make it more like Grindr) but I agree there's a high volume of problematic people on there. I have had some great experiences from that app though, but you've just got to be careful.

Edited August 25Aug 25 by Jack!

5 hours ago, Lady Claire said:

I used some years ago, but never was brave enough to actually go out with someone that i met there.

And it's also annoying how 90% of the dominant guys these days are into findom, including straight frat men who found a niche in it and basically took up that space. Like dude i won't give you money for you to shove your feet down my throat leave me alone

Gay men are doing findom too, its

Never used it but I think I've heard of it