What did the police say

The same thing happened to me once. The guy tried to blackmail me later for money after he left by saying he recorded a video of me giving blowjob, but i'm aware he never actually recorded anything by the angle he's using the phone before so i know it's a bluff and blocked his contacts. So sorry it happened to you Lessons learned from that, i will make sure that anyone's not a rent/money boy by asking them directly in the chat before meeting up.

1 hour ago, Onyxmage said:

Delete it and never use it again. Way too many predators on there.

This. Don't use Grindr. Delete it

To OP: Any time someone is overly persistent, pushing you to do x y or z, do not do it! It's sus. Someone who's chill and trustworthy will respect your timing, boundaries, and choices.

Don't be guilted into doing something either. That's a common tactic they try. I'm assuming you're in your early 20s. This happens most to younger people bc sadly they don't know any better.

The guy you met is unstable. I'm so sorry he attacked you and lied to you. It's not about you at all, you didn't do anything wrong. Mentally ill people are rampant on these apps and they will try taking advantage of your energy, your kindness, and naivety, to fill their own voids and unresolved issues. Also, never invite ppl to your place unless you know them and feel comfortable with them. If traveling to a guys place isn't an option, explore cruising outdoors or in contained public spaces (bathrooms, gyms, etc). Even though it's risky, you do have more control over walking away, choosing a sexual partner, etc.

yeah file a report on ur local police station...and if u can contact with someone on grind like a real person to actually tell them you have a real police report so they can u know ban him...

try do IG, its kinda better actually... more chill. u can meet people and actually go have a drink then do something else.... just start following some bagguettes from ur area then all the suggestions are going to be people from the area and will be LGBT too,.. grindr its just to have fast quick sex and just that, as other have said isn't safe.

Edited April 26Apr 26 by MonsterTown

Which city are you from? Can you post his face pic here?

5 hours ago, Strawberry Bubble said:

no im from latin america

where in Latam? that happens on grindr in Panama sometimes.

Literally go to the police dude, that is ******* scary and awful

I got robbed by someone from Grindr before too, he stole my phone and ran away with it. I went to the police and they were able to track the phone down and get it back for me. File a report with them and see where it goes

Sorry that happened to you. And you are VERY smart for paying him. You should always always avoid danger.

But I have to say, If you hosted. Then THAT was a mistake. And you should always host people that you've talked to and met elsewhere before bringing them into your home.

What was his Madonna hashtag?

You should have bunch him in the face

OMGGG babes, sorry this happened to you. Def file a police report.