I love the friendships where you don't feel pressure to keep in touch virtually by sending memes or liking posts - you simply catch up when you see each other whether that's a few weeks or months in most cases and it feels effortless - like no time has passed and you just pick up where you left off.

 

Do you have friendships like these? Or the kinds where you're always in contact in some way, shape or form?

 

 

Nearly all of my friendships are like this.

Yes. I have a friend group from college where we probably only talk to each other once or twice a year () in our group chat, but when we do it's suddenly like old times again and it's like we never stopped speaking to each other.

I have 4 best friends and a few casual ones. 

I wish but I'm like that with my siblings 

Yes since we don't always talk everyday but we know we are there for each other

 

though I am going to move closer to my bestie but even then I know it be fine since we got a chilled friendship and she never judges me for my obsessions (not like my former ones) 

Yes, I kinda thought this is what all adult friendships are like. I haven't had one of those "we speak every day" type friendships since university. And thank god because it was so draining

Your bar is in HELL

I'm not a teenager so all of my friendships are like this

I have 5 really close friends with group chats and stuff and I see them for evening out, chilling, traveling, etc. life friends

and I have a couple of other friends, as close, but I can't see them often due to distance but every time we see each other it's easy like the last time

 

I almost talk to my friends everyday on text or social media

 

no, if my MANY friends don't message me 24/7 i start self-harming and causing a scene

nearly all my friendships nowadays are like this, except for a few that i regularly check in with 

Thankfully, yes. There are a couple I love staying in almost constant contact with, but others I don't mind going a week, or so, without talking.

yes bc im an adult

It's better this way tbh