to all the dirty minds here, repent. repent right now! ariana grande-butera is a woman of god. she would never write sacrilegious lyrics, no she wouldn't. the song is about being a housewife from the 50s, just as our lord jc (chasez) intended it, yes it is. she can wear many different hats for her husband, she can be a chef, a president, an olympic hoop jumper, all while not overshadowing her man. we teach women to shine. we teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. we say to girls, "you can have ambition, but not too much. you should aim to be successful, but not too successful, otherwise you will threaten the man."