Hi, I know I'm crazy already so I'm moreso wondering other people's opinions and laughing at myself

So my boyfriend has a new friend that we both hung out with in August. When I met the friend he told me "[my boyfriend] always talks so much about how he loves you and how your relationship is so perfect" and I was like aww and now they have gotten closer over the months. Nothing crazy, but I feel suspicious of him now and don't trust him. Like why do you want to be so close with someone else's bf?

I was just sitting with my bf IN OUR HOUSE and he started playing a voice note from the friend, who was talking abt something about his boss, and I got visibly annoyed bc GO AWAY go talk to someone else about it. Stop telling my man about your day and ****. My bf laughed and said he thought it was cute that I was jealous and I rolled my eyes

but does anyone else feel like this? Like don't talk to my boyfriend!!!! I have gay friends too but idc let me be mad

4 minutes ago, Cyanide said:

"[my boyfriend] always talks so much about how he loves you and how your relationship is so perfect"

Not to rub it in, but all people that have went after my boyfriend have said this to me lmao

Edited January 5Jan 5 by Soul Grabber

@Whis look what you have started

2 minutes ago, Soul Grabber said:

Not to rub it in, but all people that have went after my boyfriends have said this to me lmao

Oh hell no

Tell me the story and what did it look like when it happened? What patterns did you notice and how did your bf respond?

If you trust your boyfriend this shouldn't be a problem tbh

1 minute ago, ONOPKA said:

@Whis look what you have started

wait I need her crazy ass in here to fuel my delusions and give me tips on how to be a mess!

Tbf that's how some friends are, BUT that doesn't mean you shouldn't keep an eye for that Selener though. A bit of caution.mp3 never hurts.

keep it cute and stay vigilant for now. My boyfriend has two very very close guy friends and I'm not worried about either of them at allllll BUT they've never given me the "omg your boyfriend always talks about how much he loves you and how your relationship is so perfect"-spiel which DOES sound suspicious but maybe I'm also vicariously doing too much. So yeah, for now I'd just keep a watchful eye but also not wake up sleeping dogs because if you're showing too much crash outs over this, your boyfriend will get annoyed by you.

1 minute ago, glitch said:

If you trust your boyfriend this shouldn't be a problem tbh

I do which is why we talk about things openly but I just feel pressed and annoyed at the friend the last two times they hung out he ****** me beforehand so I know he walked in smelling like my boochie 🥰🥰🥰

I read a book with a similar plot and the friend ended up being in love with the boyfriend

its called forbidden fruit. people want what they cant have. this behavior is common amongst many humans. i would side eye the friend, but not make it too obvs because if u do the bf will catch on and prob side with the friend thinking ur crashing out, and they end up together.

3 minutes ago, glitch said:

If you trust your boyfriend this shouldn't be a problem tbh

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1 minute ago, fantafantanocoke said:

keep it cute and stay vigilant for now. My boyfriend has two very very close guy friends and I'm not worried about either of them at allllll BUT they've never given me the "omg your boyfriend always talks about how much he loves you and how your relationship is so perfect"-spiel which DOES sound suspicious but maybe I'm also vicariously doing too much. So yeah, for now I'd just keep a watchful eye but also not wake up sleeping dogs because if you're showing too much crash outs over this, your boyfriend will get annoyed by you.

I said it in a very cutesy way and he laughed and was like it's so cute that you're jealous you want me all to yourself huh? Which was funny and cute but I am annoyed at the friend like ugh go away

1 minute ago, Rush said:

I read a book with a similar plot and the friend ended up being in love with the boyfriend

Oh hell no

what was the plot

1 minute ago, Cyanide said:

I do which is why we talk about things openly but I just feel pressed and annoyed at the friend the last two times they hung out he ****** me beforehand so I know he walked in smelling like my boochie 🥰🥰🥰

Oh you weren't lying, you're actually crazy. Let the other bottom thirst over him, at some point he'll cross a line and your bf will realise you're right

5 minutes ago, Cyanide said:

Oh hell no

what was the plot

Well it was really the opposite of your story because they were friends before the boyfriend (you) came along and they used to hook up

2 minutes ago, glitch said:

Oh you weren't lying, you're actually crazy. Let the other bottom thirst over him, at some point he'll cross a line and your bf will realise you're right

Yeah I am! Apparently the friend likes 40+ daddies which my bf is not that, but he does have some grey hairs on the side so I'm like ?????

You should look thru his phone and find out!

1 minute ago, mokitsu said:

You should look thru his phone and find out!

It's Face ID and if I shine it in his face while he's sleeping he'll wake up! Any other ideas?

2 minutes ago, Cyanide said:

It's Face ID and if I shine it in his face while he's sleeping he'll wake up! Any other ideas?

Not if you turn the brightness all the way down

It is indeed weird sorry

Does that one friend mentions that they talk to your boyfriend that much?

5 minutes ago, Cyanide said:

It's Face ID and if I shine it in his face while he's sleeping he'll wake up! Any other ideas?

3D print his face pretend you're doing an art exhibition print a bunch of peoples' faces then say you lost funding 'cause of Trump administration then ask if his friend feels guilty for voting for Trump

29 minutes ago, Devin said:

its called forbidden fruit. people want what they cant have. this behavior is common amongst many humans. i would side eye the friend, but not make it too obvs because if u do the bf will catch on and prob side with the friend thinking ur crashing out, and they end up together.

and this is called Forbidden love!

4 minutes ago, raposavelozmarrom said:

It is indeed weird sorry

Does that one friend mentions that they talk to your boyfriend that much?

What do you mean by the second part?

Also how would you react in this situation?

5 minutes ago, kataraqueen said:

3D print his face pretend you're doing an art exhibition print a bunch of peoples' faces then say you lost funding 'cause of Trump administration then ask if his friend feels guilty for voting for Trump

It's an ok idea since I'm American, but we are living in the UK so I would have to switch up the story a bit