Why don't we have a thread for relationship/romantic advice? I know most atrls are single and miserable but still  

mid-term week finally ending today

Birthday tomorrow but im at that age I don't do anything for it anymore .. so I treated myself to a cute outfit (that ill probably will never go anywhere for .. so I guess it can be for Jonas Brothers or Bring me the horizon next year) since they are like pink platform boots (that ive never worn in my life but they were too cute)

So, there’s this girl who dated my best friend, she cheated on him and started a new life with the guy who she cheated on my friend with (and I personally knew that man who she cheated on my friend with). Needless to say, I had nothing but bad things to say to her for massively screwing over somebody I view as a little brother (she cheated on him multiple times with multiple different men, my friend forgave her several times), and went about my life. 
 

Fast forward to present day: the man she left my bestie for, and had 2 children with, tragically passed away a week and a half ago. I seen her post on IG today how this first holiday without him was a rough one, and I felt a profound sadness and empathy for her and decided to message her my condolences and that I was praying for her. Should I have just left her alone and not said anything? The last time I talked to her I said nothing but horrible things to her, but everybody deserves empathy and compassion during the lowest times In their lives, people I DESPISED reached out to me and offered help after my dad passed away, but now I’m on the other end… 

1 hour ago, Alldeezy said:

Birthday tomorrow but im at that age I don't do anything for it anymore .. so I treated myself to a cute outfit (that ill probably will never go anywhere for .. so I guess it can be for Jonas Brothers or Bring me the horizon next year) since they are like pink platform boots (that ive never worn in my life but they were too cute)

Happy birthday 

27 minutes ago, Bears01 said:

Happy birthday 

thank you

this week really kicked my ass, I deserve some rest 

 

31 minutes ago, stupidjock said:

this week really kicked my ass, I deserve some rest 

 

Didn't you just have 3 weeks of rest 

 

 

 

 

 

2 minutes ago, HotFriedChicken said:

Didn't you just have 3 weeks of rest 

 

 

 

 

 

My vacation is over already, I’m working full time now

 

Waking up at 5:50 am 

 

 

6 minutes ago, stupidjock said:

My vacation is over already, I’m working full time now

 

Waking up at 5:50 am 

 

 

Weren't you going to quit?

Just now, HotFriedChicken said:

Weren't you going to quit?

I quit, I got a new job 

4 minutes ago, stupidjock said:

I quit, I got a new job 

You should quit again

Just now, HotFriedChicken said:

You should quit again

It’s bearable here 

44 minutes ago, stupidjock said:

It’s bearable here 

I'm happy you're happy boo

2 hours ago, stupidjock said:

this week really kicked my ass, I deserve some rest 

 

same but i'll work the whole weekend idk if gonna be able to get through it

 

52 minutes ago, Venice B said:

same but i'll work the whole weekend idk if gonna be able to get through it

 

You work two jobs?

Spoiler

 

11 minutes ago, stupidjock said:

You work two jobs?

not really, but sometimes my sister's friend need help at her job and she calls us in. and i need the money so i'm going

 

I hate my hairline. I need to get a hair transplant.

I fell asleep after eating my lunch and now I've got horrid acid reflux. This is all your fault @slw84 

I think I found another dupe account but I need to investigate further  Let them trip on their own feet 

I have to reschedule a hookup next weekend because my family is throwing me a (no longer) surprise birthday party: 1 month early before my bday. SMFH 

1 minute ago, Bears01 said:

I have to reschedule a hookup next weekend because my family is throwing me a (no longer) surprise birthday party: 1 month early before my bday. SMFH 

not 1 month early, the extra

got some xmas shopping out of the way, saved 17€ not bad 

Worked extra hours this week

but ofc I am going to get sick right at the weeknd's door and would have to cancel my first going out in weeks

not to mention me cancelling several appointments with my f bud