Yes but I don't care about being surrounded by them. I prefer being on my own.

I'd say yeah. For the last two jobs I had my coworkers organized a night out for me and it was like 25+ of us going out which was fun. I did sports from childhood to high school so making friends isn't very hard for me, and I was also involved with greek life in college. And my core group of friends are basically like brothers/family to me. People naturally gravitate towards me which can be a good and bad thing. I'm still kinda oblivious why but I've been told it's because I have good energy and conversation so I'll take their word for it

yeah surprisingly cuz i used to be such a bully but i'm nicer now 

Idgaf if they do or they dont

When I want them to.

 

ATRL people, definitely no. 

Yes, a lot of people find me funny, and view me as a sweet and genuine person. I have both introvert and extroverted qualities, such as liking my alone time, but I'm also good at socializing and meeting new people, since I'm talkative 

 

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Maybe? But I don't care, really.

 

I'm usually nice to everyone for the sake of being nice because I don't see the benefit of being the opposite?

 

Even if I encounter someone who is an a$$h*le.

I hope so

I guess kind of, I'm friendly with people but when it comes time to go anywhere or do anything I'm the one who never gets invited 

People just forget I exist as soon as I'm no longer around them. 

 I've always felt like I was boring so I'm  surprised when someone wants to be friends with me for real 

No. They think I'm creepy, weird, and off-putting. 

Yes

 

Most people do, yes. The ones who don't are the ones I've had to set boundaries with, as recently as last night. The average person I come across will find me sweet, compromising, personable, fun-loving and intelligent. The odd person who is problematic, themselves, will find me arrogant, disrespectful, narcissistic, annoying and an ass; people who come at me sideways will get abruptly turned right side up, and I do so unapologetically. 

On 7/10/2025 at 4:58 AM, ?????? said:

Well, I'm a bit on the spectrum, but I guess I'm in the "late-diagnosed" segment, so I excel in daily life and work but when it comes to social settings, that's when the challenges and quirks really show up. And the neurotypicals usually are the first to clock my tea and suddenly treat me differently because I'm not aligned with them in terms of mindset, communication, etc.

 

 

This is the same situation for me too.

I probably come across as stuck up, even though I'm really just keeping to myself and not paying much attention to others most of the time — so that would be a no