ANOTHER D1 football player story. But a short one. As I said earlier, I made a post on the crap of a site that starts with an r and shall not be named to look for a future husband. Despite some of you still living in delululand and believing that I "get no d*cks" (btw stop calling potential dates d*cks I'm actually looking for a relationship), believe it or not, a (recently starting to be former) 6'5 300lbs D1 football player hit me up. I gave my socials. He said he's attracted to me and wanted to get to know me. Now, believe it or not, I don't say yes to every D1 athlete. In fact, I looked through the 2024 or 2025 football rosters of 5 Ivy League schools to see how many of those athletes I'm attracted to. Here are the results: Columbia (2025): 14 (single) + 2 (taken) out of 80 Princeton (2024): 20 (single) + 0 (taken) out of 120 Yale (2025): 6 (single) + 3 (taken) out of 102 UPenn (2025): 17 (single) + 3 (taken) out of 100 Harvard (2025): 11 (single) + 2 (taken) out of 105 (Some of the men I determined to be single may actually be taken. Also these were from a long while ago and my taste has changed a bit since then.) This guy who hit me up told me I could tell him honestly if I'm not attracted to him and it'd be ok. I replied and said he's really handsome (which is true I don't say this to everyone) but just not what I'm looking for currently. And then he blocked me… GIRL. This is why I have trust issues. And this is why nowadays I tend to ignore guys if there isn't attraction to start with / if I lose interest over time. I just always get hurt at the end if I'm being honest. And because I'm autistic af, if I'm struggling between a yes or a no for a guy, I don't want to be pressured into giving an answer quickly. But one thing that I need to accept in 2026 is if a guy blocks you / unmatches out of the blue, he's doing that to hurt you. Because there's no reason for a man to do that and no way in hell would a man who actually cares about you do that type of sh*t. —————————————————————————————————————————————— Post-Chapter 7 Update 1 Some of you said my DM to guys on Insta seems like one from a catfish: "Hey ur cute. R u single? (We can be the hottest couple in existence.)" Since none of you were able to tell me what I should change it to, I've come up with a new one: "Hey ur cute. R u single? (Courtney King slid into Cbum's DMs so I'm doing the same.)" It's crazy how much I've been beating myself up for "men's" stupidity. Many of them claim they want a woman who's proactive but when one finally comes, they chicken out. It's hilarious. If you missed my previous post feel free to tell me your advice/thoughts on this DM / being mistaken as a catfish issue. 2 Moving forward I'm adding anyone who does nothing but throw around misogynistic and victim blaming/shaming/gaslighting insults to Ignored Users. Also unbased "go to therapy" comments or similar are not productive or valid. They belittle actual female / mental health struggles and speak more about yourself than others. Those who clearly twist what I write only to be malicious will also be going there as I don't tolerate misinformation especially in today's Trump ruled real-world dystopia that is America. Please. Actually put in effort to make valid points before you try to argue with me. Untruths and cruelty and insults are boring. If you make a valid point I WILL admit that and give you credit for it. 3 A user has made VERY defamatory accusations about me in my last post, as well as admitting to have done a lot of creepy and disturbing things. I have made a response about that under that post. Let me make a few things crystal clear: a. pretty much everything they said about me is false, b. the only thing I regret regarding what I post online is spelling and grammar mistakes. other than that I regret pretty much nothing. c. I call men out and tag them because they f*cked up and they deserve to know that they f*cked up, d. outing someone's identity or parts of it based on public information from an anonymous account publicly / with malicious intent, including linking anonymous with unanonymous accounts, crosses into criminal territory, e. I won't be responding to this user or any similar unbased, rage baiting accusations any further on ATRL. if i am to respond to accusations etc it'll be in the form of a lawsuit.