The OP literally begins by stating that "I'm not a little monster" yet the usual OGHs have managed to ascribe and generalize their opinions over the entire fanbase and then y'all fold at the slightest retaliation when that same nasty energy that y'all constantly give them is occasionally returned. The fact that this even needs to be said is an indictment of the current state of pop culture where everything is seen and consumed from a warped, stan war'd lens. People, especially grown ass gay men, need to step back and reflect a bit before weaponizing serious issues for stan war points. There's some valid discussion and criticism and some have respectfully made their points but most do NOT care about any of these issues and are just virtue signalling, using her as a lightning rod to directly or indirectly antagonize her and/or her fans, because they genuinely can't stand when she achieves these milestones, whether personal or professional, and we can see right through it. Just look at the almost 40 pages of that thread filled with the most deranged, bitter, vile posts. Or the billionaire wedding one that she didn't attend was never even confirmed in the first place.