Ergh, we're the same sis: incredible hot and deep gay man who can only stay single. I have the same "problem". I'm not actually a 10/10 (I have good body but def not abs -- yet) but I'm def the guy who can pull up hot guys that are 100% my type in looks/physically (I'm confident, cute, well dressed, etc). But I do have a strong type and I really want to find a hot man that is that way to settle down, too, because I don't wanna settle for "less" than what i think I deserve. What I'm trying to do is: coming to terms that I have a specific type without feeling guilty, while also being open to try things with people that are not my type 100%. That way we teach yourselves (and the universe if you believe in these things) how you deserve to be treated (after all, why would you date a hot guy that doesn't treat you right, right?). And also, you give things time. Imagine if you meet a hot guy today who's interested in you, you'd be so desperate to catch him, you'd only scare him off. If you have the attitude of always being open and ready to meet people without expectations, then you'll create the mindset of "there's always another" (not because you are always wanting better, but because you know you don't have to act desperate to grab a man, just because you finally found someone that's your type). Then, once you get the hang of it, I'm sure more and more guys will be attracted to you and then you'll have a pick. If not, you've spent your time meeting nice guys and, even if they're not your type, you might even actually find the one you're looking for. Win/win situation in my perspective. Because let's be honest, beauty fades. It's not shallow to want to be with a hot guy, but personality will always wins over time.