Everything posted by Purr
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2026 US Midterms Megathread ๐บ๐ธ Dem Primaries: AZ (7/21), GA & SD (7/28)
Has this been posted?
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Spotify | Katy Perry - The One That Got Away | WW: #11 (3.7M) BIGGEST DAY EVER
Upset and triggered for no reasonโฆwhy? OT: so glad the streams aren't slowing down!
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Metacritic | Taylor Swift - The Life of a Showgirl: 70
Oops, didn't see that review! I guess her team knew exactly which publications to target!
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Metacritic | Taylor Swift - The Life of a Showgirl: 70
Weird how RS, PopMatters, NYT, and Variety, all of which are weighted heavily, gave the highest scores. Pitchfork is the only one that gave a mediocre review. AllMusic is the only heavily-weighted publication left.
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Katy Perry: The Lifetimes Tour
Are people actually claiming the LA show was not successful? I was there and it was packed.
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2024 US Election Megathread ๐บ๐ธ๐๏ธ
OmgโฆI can't believe it.
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Mitch McConnell writes op-ed defending the Supreme Court
Wish he would just croak already.
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How to deal with loss?
Iโm so sorry you had to go through all that. I know โ everyone just tells me that time will heal everything, but I havenโt lost a loved one before, and I canโt imagine the pain Iโll have to endure when that time comes. Everything I do will remind me of himโฆ Itโs so hard. This is why my parents did not want to get a pet. But he provided us with so much joy and happiness, and we treated him so well. I just donโt want him to be in pain. I hope your dogs feel better. I know how it feels when your beloved pets are sickโฆI just wish I could do more. It definitely is like losing a family member. My parents consider him as one of their children. It just aches my heart to see him sick. We definitely will take him out the most we possibly can and let him enjoy his favorite foodsโฆI already miss him even though heโs still here.
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How to deal with loss?
These past few months have been so difficult. My mom was diagnosed with cancer last year and underwent chemo and is now in remission. I had all sorts of thoughts of losing my mom as she was going through treatment, but they mostly went away after her amazing response to chemo. I was planning on taking her to Europe in May, but now we just found out our dog has cancer. Heโs starting chemo today, but we were told to expect only a few extra months with him. Heโs been our dog for 14 years, and I cannot imagine how life would be like without him. What are some ways to deal with loss? Iโm mostly an introvert and donโt really like going out too often. Iโm also afraid of going out and not coming home to my dogโs barks and licksโฆ
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Student Debt - Update: GOP lawsuit attempts, Biden allows opt-out; FFEL restrictions
Np! Hopefully you can get a refund! You'll most likely qualify for forgiveness. The loan expert is quite confident about it.
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Student Debt - Update: GOP lawsuit attempts, Biden allows opt-out; FFEL restrictions
The FFEL loans will probably be looped in later on. I follow this Reddit thread for information: https://www.reddit.com/r/StudentLoans/comments/wyppu8/new_biden_forgiveness_megathread/?sort=new. If you have any questions, you should try reaching out to someone there. Hope that helps!
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Student Debt - Update: GOP lawsuit attempts, Biden allows opt-out; FFEL restrictions
When you log on studentaid.gov, does it say your loans are owned by the Department of Education? The servicer should not matter as long as they are owned by the DOE. I feel like people who cannot get refunds never had federal loans to begin with...
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How to cope with depressing news?
There are a lot of things I want to do or originally planned to do. I love traveling, but I canโt imagine myself traveling without my mom, especially when we had plans to go back to Japan together in the near future. I just hope that once she finishes her treatment, weโll be able to travel somewhere together. I should probably just take melatonin, though itโs not something I want to depend on forever.
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How to cope with depressing news?
I know. Itโs always best to let it out, but Iโm worried this pain and heartbreak will live on with me forever. Iโve never dealt with the loss of a loved one, so itโs been extremely hard for me to cope. I donโt have a big group of friends (most of my โfriendsโ from high school and university turned out to be quite fake), so I almost feel as if Iโm alone. I also worry about how they would act around me - I donโt want them to pity me or feel like they have to act cautiously around me. I donโt know. I have been telling myself to go see a therapist or psychologist for years now (for other reasons), but I think itโs absolutely necessary this time around. Thanks for all the well wishes. I really appreciate all your kind words and hope we can make it through this.
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How to cope with depressing news?
I wish I was in the mood for music. I havenโt listened to music for a week now, which I didnโt think was ever going to happen. I do like to put on some Twitch streams or funny videos to help myself fall asleep, but itโs when I wake up in the middle of the night that makes it hard to get myself to fall back asleepโฆ
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How to cope with depressing news?
Thanks. This has really brought us a lot closer to each other. I am grateful that my relatives and my momsโ friends have been extremely supportive, but it just aches my heart when I hear my mom cry. I am the youngest in my family, so I know she always worries about me the most. I always let her know that I am in good hands and that she never has to worry about me. My mom has pancreatic cancer, which is one of the worst cancers out there. Itโs not impossible to treat, but itโs going to be difficult. However, I am hopeful because I will to anything and everything to make sure she gets the best possible treatments, even if it involves a lot of travel. Iโm sorry to hear about your dad. The one thing that makes me emotional is when I know my mom is worried about me and my future. She is scared that I will be alone, but I will reassure her that she raised me to be the best version of myself and that she has nothing to worry about.
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How to cope with depressing news?
I donโt post here quite often, but Iโm trying to see how other people cope when they are hit with depressing news and maybe learn a thing or two. This week has been the worst week of my life. On Monday, I found out I got a job offer from my dream company. Of course, I was ecstatic and the only plan I had was to celebrate with my family and take them out to a nice dinner. However, two days later, my mom, who is my world, was diagnosed with stage III cancer. My life just felt like it stopped once I found out. Iโm trying to be strong and hopeful. Itโs a bit easier to stay positive during the day, especially as Iโm conducting my research on her disease and reaching out to support groups for resources and contacting the top cancer hospitals for appointments. However, nighttime is exceptionally difficult, and each and every pessimistic thought hits me and I struggle to fall asleep. How do you deal with this, especially at night?
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Finally joined the Six Figure club!
It's considered middle class income. And yes, it's generally the case that people with high salaries work for companies that offer a comprehensive benefits package, and the company pays for most (and sometimes all) of the medical premium. I only pay $50 a month for good health insurance.
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Finally joined the Six Figure club!
Congrats I finally joined the club this year, too. I just got my first paycheck and it's weird seeing a much bigger number I'm in California, so my dollars won't go as far as yours do in TX, but it feels so good to actually be able to treat myself and my family without much thought. How much do you owe in student loans?
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Presidential Elections in France: Macron Wins
https://www.france24.com/en/france/20220424-live-follow-the-results-of-france-s-presidential-election-run-off Macron 58.2% Le Pen 41.8%
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Presidential Elections in France: Macron Wins
Yup, I remember there being a lot of chaos over the vaccine mandates/pass. At least the winner will be declared in a few hours. Only elections in the US are messy and horrendous to keep up with.
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Presidential Elections in France: Macron Wins
2017: French Guiana Macron 65% vs Le Pen 35% 2022: French Guiana Macron 39% vs Le Pen 61% --- 2017: Guadeloupe Macron 75% vs Le Pen 25% 2022: Guadeloupe Macron 30% vs Le Pen 70% --- 2017: Martinique Macron 78% vs Le Pen 22% 2022: Martinique Macron 39% vs Le Pen 61%
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Political Thread: 2018-2020 ?? Biden-Harris Win POTUS
One side is pushing for aid during a worldwide pandemic that's leaving millions unemployed and hungry, while the other side is focusing on spreading lies and conspiracy theories about the election (despite investigations finding no evidence of fraud) and supports a man who's spending our tax dollars golfing as his constituents are dying. Whoever thinks both sides are EQUALLY bad is a troll. The Democratic party is far from perfect, but it is no way as terrible as the current Republican party.
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Political Thread: 2018-2020 ?? Biden-Harris Win POTUS
And his supporters will still scream, "BEST PRESIDENT EVER!" while criticizing any sort of COVID relief bill. A joke.
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Political Thread: 2018-2020 ?? Biden-Harris Win POTUS
AP finally called Nevada for Biden. Took them long enough. We need Georgia for that 300+ EV smash!