5 hours ago, flower moon said:

did you make it?

Yes and I was in business class sipping champagne like a princess 

so a few weeks ago a friend invited me a to a party/get together

today she wanted me to confirm if i'm going but the way she phrased it made me feel girl, so confusing

she asked if i still wanted to come, there will be 6 or 7 of us or if you just want to meet the next day just the two of us

a few weeks ago i was kinda excited to go, to see her circle of friends but now i feel like i'm not really wanted there hence her proposition of option b? am i overthinking or we should work it out on the remix... but srls would y'all go or what

bonus info all of the people know each other except me so maybe it was thoughtful of hers to exclude me idk 

4 hours ago, KFC said:

Yes and I was in business class sipping champagne like a princess 

Does your airline upgrade non-revs or did you book J class standby? 

1 hour ago, Hollywood. said:

Does your airline upgrade non-revs or did you book J class standby? 

Yes we get seated in the highest available cabin. Unfortunately I've had a taste of the good life and now I don't wish to fly any other way and it looks like for my return flight I'll be sitting in Economy like a peasant 

5 minutes ago, KFC said:

Yes we get seated in the highest available cabin. Unfortunately I've had a taste of the good life and now I don't wish to fly any other way and it looks like for my return flight I'll be sitting in Economy like a peasant 

That's good, some airlines will only accommodate non-revs in Economy and upgrade a paying pax first.

 

Also if you travel standby enough you'll eventually learn that any seat is better than being left stranded somewhere. Had a co-worker stuck in Japan an extra 4 days cause they had no open availability. 

3 minutes ago, Hollywood. said:

That's good, some airlines will only accommodate non-revs in Economy and upgrade a paying pax first.

 

Also if you travel standby enough you'll eventually learn that any seat is better than being left stranded somewhere. Had a co-worker stuck in Japan an extra 4 days cause they had no open availability. 

I don't know if I'll be doing this again, I'm trying to enjoy my vacation but I keep worrying about whether I'll make it home. Checking the open seats every hour

 

I'll probably just use our discounted confirmed seats (we're only allowed these in Economy)

Edited December 11, 20241 yr by KFC

With that being said, Miami is gorgeous! I want to find the City Girls

Yay the only way to watch billboard music awards is if I get a VPN 

 

Im sorry but the US Is so doggy for that if your gonna have our boys perform make it available for worldwide especially in the Asia area I'm so pissed.

 

Hopefully I find a live link but if it lags during stray kids performance I will flip 

6 hours ago, KFC said:

I don't know if I'll be doing this again, I'm trying to enjoy my vacation but I keep worrying about whether I'll make it home. Checking the open seats every hour

 

I'll probably just use our discounted confirmed seats (we're only allowed these in Economy)

Standby is fine as long as your flexible with your travel plans and have a backup plan as well as a backup to your backup. 
 

if you can use myID travel your airline might have agreements with other airlines to let you non rev on them too. 

 

 

My bloody bias about to steal the bloody show and they won't even be there live 

 

 

still morfied I did this whole dance to my best friend and her friend while I was drunk last weekend 

 

 

why cant I dance like that when im sober 

18 hours ago, Young In Love said:

so a few weeks ago a friend invited me a to a party/get together

today she wanted me to confirm if i'm going but the way she phrased it made me feel girl, so confusing

she asked if i still wanted to come, there will be 6 or 7 of us or if you just want to meet the next day just the two of us

a few weeks ago i was kinda excited to go, to see her circle of friends but now i feel like i'm not really wanted there hence her proposition of option b? am i overthinking or we should work it out on the remix... but srls would y'all go or what

bonus info all of the people know each other except me so maybe it was thoughtful of hers to exclude me idk 

Idk u or your friend but I think you're overthinking it lol

 

Just go with them and see what the vibes are, if you're not having fun then ditch them and hang out on your own

I hate this site sometimes 

 

Everyone can have a laugh and have there friends yet they will laugh and react differently to me no matter what I do.

 

I'm sorry but acting like a bunch of sheep is boring 

 

I'm sick of feeling like a fuckin outcast everywhere and every site I'm on even in real life I legit can't handle it anymore it's like I don't belong anywhere 

 

 

Spoiler

Time to pretend and act like a horny male to fit in

 

12 minutes ago, Alldeezy said:

I hate this site sometimes 

 

Everyone can have a laugh and have there friends yet they will laugh and react differently to me no matter what I do.

 

I'm sorry but acting like a bunch of sheep is boring 

 

I'm sick of feeling like a fuckin outcast everywhere and every site I'm on even in real life I legit can't handle it anymore it's like I don't belong anywhere 

I've seen those negative reactions sometimes in posts about you just talking about your favs. I think they are dickheads. Happens to me too when I talk about, let's say, Britney or Kesha, in music subs that are not that Pop friendly. I don't know why they can't keep their bitter asses to themselves.

Edited December 12, 20241 yr by ChooseyLover

Just now, ChooseyLover said:

I've seen those negative reactions sometimes in posts about you just talking about your favs. I think they are dickheads. Happens to me too when I talk about, let's say, Britney or Kesha, in music subs that are not that Pop friendly. I don't know why they can't keep their bitter asses to themselves.

Like it sucks everyone has there faves but it seems if it's not about someone important to them they will drag for it  it's just got really toxic recently 

 

 

 

I won't lie I admit I can talk too much about them Especially since being autistic I do make it my main toxic everywhere atrl, twitter even in real life but you'd think on a actual music forum it be okay but sadly nope.  Like it's so frustrating 

1 hour ago, Alldeezy said:

Like it sucks everyone has there faves but it seems if it's not about someone important to them they will drag for it  it's just got really toxic recently 

 

 

 

I won't lie I admit I can talk too much about them Especially since being autistic I do make it my main toxic everywhere atrl, twitter even in real life but you'd think on a actual music forum it be okay but sadly nope.  Like it's so frustrating 

Yeah, it's funny they don't seem to realize their "important faves" are not that important to many people either outside of their bubble. 
 

Don't worry about talking too much about what you like. I sometimes feel kinda bad because I know nobody will reciprocate when it comes to your AllDay posts here but that doesn't mean this is not your place. You have a broad music taste anyways. If anything, you've been here for a decade and a half or more, am I right? This is pretty much your home. These people will eventually get banned because truly, they're unbearable and unpleasant to be around. Keep doing you. 

Edited December 12, 20241 yr by ChooseyLover

1 hour ago, ChooseyLover said:

Yeah, it's funny they don't seem to realize their "important faves" are not that important to many people either outside of their bubble. 
 

Don't worry about talking too much about what you like. I sometimes feel kinda bad because I know nobody will reciprocate when it comes to your AllDay posts here but that doesn't mean this is not your place. You have a broad music taste anyways. If anything, you've been here for a decade and a half or more, am I right? This is pretty much your home. These people will eventually get banned because truly, they're unbearable and unpleasant to be around. Keep doing you. 

Thank you means a lot and it was with Allday and now with Hyunjin from stray kids so whoever I'm stanning some members will react the same but yeah guess they will all act up like that it just makes it harder to post in here some days because of them and this place is sorta like a home (safe bubble) 

 

Thanks again means a lot  and I've seen them banning a few already so crossing fingers those other nasty ones are next

The first year in a while when I actually cared to listen to enough stuff to make year-end lists, and who knows if Best Of is even happening. I guess I'll just dump them on my blog next week.

Felon Musky is such a vile, horrible and trash piece of ****. Every time I try to retweet a pro-Palestine post on Twitter, the action fails and I get this message "This request looks like it might be automated. To protect our users from spam and other malicious activity, we can't complete this action right now. Please try again later.". So I have to try at least 10 to 15 times so the post is retweeted successfully. And I don't have this problem with tweets about other subjects, only pro-Palestine ones.

9 hours ago, Alldeezy said:

I hate this site sometimes 

 

Everyone can have a laugh and have there friends yet they will laugh and react differently to me no matter what I do.

 

I'm sorry but acting like a bunch of sheep is boring 

 

I'm sick of feeling like a fuckin outcast everywhere and every site I'm on even in real life I legit can't handle it anymore it's like I don't belong anywhere 

 

 

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Time to pretend and act like a horny male to fit in

 

You're not the only one that feels like this from time to time, I can promise you that. There's days where I just don't know, I feel lost in the crowd on here. I fear saying something that will push people I've befriended away or make them see me in a different light, it's exhausting having to police yourself in such a way as to keep everyone happy. I just want to let it all go and not care but it's hard not to when it's become such an ingrained part of the culture on here  it's the dilemma of wanting to be liked, to be respected and yet wanting to be completely authentic. I'm still not sure if we always can be all three at once.

 

Spoiler

So even being a horny male doesn't come without its difficulties on here 

 

Edited December 12, 20241 yr by nostalgic

On 12/11/2024 at 3:40 PM, Young In Love said:

so a few weeks ago a friend invited me a to a party/get together

today she wanted me to confirm if i'm going but the way she phrased it made me feel girl, so confusing

she asked if i still wanted to come, there will be 6 or 7 of us or if you just want to meet the next day just the two of us

a few weeks ago i was kinda excited to go, to see her circle of friends but now i feel like i'm not really wanted there hence her proposition of option b? am i overthinking or we should work it out on the remix... but srls would y'all go or what

bonus info all of the people know each other except me so maybe it was thoughtful of hers to exclude me idk 

Can't hurt by being forward and asking head on why "still" wanted to come. 
 

my guess is that they have two sets of plans, if you were or weren't to come, if they already know each other prior and are trying to accommodate you and/or they do 'stuff' that only their circle knows about and they have to be wary of an outsider for the first time 

So when is ATRL Best of 2024 happening?

17 minutes ago, Mr. Loco said:

So when is ATRL Best of 2024 happening?

I got a feeling they forgot about it tbh

I guess Invision is ghosting the staff.