So in university I met this girl who was cool and attractive. We started out at as friends but we started getting more close and started being intimate. I never really wanted it because I didn't want to ruin the friendship, we had our ups and downs some crazy fights and cool love sessions. I found out through all this time she was still texting her ex who she told me that they never really formally broke up and that she and him are just friends however he was in another country. Like everytime we fight it's always about him and why he keeps texting her. We kinda decided to call it quits at the end of university and just become friends. We ****** once more for my birthday but nothing serious. Now he is back in the country she tells me she gonna visit him. Long story short they ****** and started to rekindle but now me and her work at the same place and our apartments are next door. We are still friends but on my end I feel played and she doesn't think she was in the wrong because she says she and him never fight the way we did. I value our friendship but I think there is still some hurt there but we still do almost everything together and I don't know how to create distance when we are so close. Sometimes we play like back in school but then she randomly draws the line and says she has a bf and that I don't respect that which I said but u first initated this ****. Before that guy came back she was sleeping at my apartment because she was scared but as soon she went to visit him she changed basically said they are now in a relationship but before that she never confirmed that, she always said they just talk but I know throughout university they communicated and even sent nudes. I just want to move on from this but she wants us to be close friends which I don't know I can do any longer even though we go to work together and cook together the only thing we don't do together is ****.