Whis Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 So I've been dating a boy, we've seen each other 4 times now. Just cute dates, nothing too extreme. We just went out for a walk, for drinks or to have dinner together. 4 times. I haven't felt any 'fire' though, which has made me feel very guilty because he's absolutely falling in love with me. I try to hint that I'm not as sure as he is of us together, but I fear he might be totally in love already. We haven't done anything more than french kissing. Monday I was feeling very horny and a boy that I know from college suddenly started texting me. The next day he came over and we had wild xxx, I smacked him around and destroyed his behind. It was intense but very hot. The other boy (the one I've been dating) suddenly rang my doorbell WHILE THE BOY FROM COLLEGE AND I WERE DOING THE THING , I could see him through my frontdoor camera. I was shook. I didn't answer the door and later told him that I wasn't home. I feel so so so bad for him, but I just can't force myself to fall in love I guess? What should I do? Am I a trashbag? I was kinda shook that he would randomly show up at my doorstep after only seeing each other 4 times... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anye Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illuminati Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 If you have to ask... yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illia Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 He should've texted you beforehand at least Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badgalbriel Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 No. You're allowed to have sex with whoever you want if you're not dating that person. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Start The Music Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 You sound like a typical man so yes you are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katamari Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 Just screw him already and get it over with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whis Posted June 21, 2023 Author Share Posted June 21, 2023 Just now, ~Start The Music said: You sound like a typical man so yes you are I'm not tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katamari Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 Just now, ~Start The Music said: You sound like a typical man so yes you are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magazine Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 Do you ever feel like a plastic bag? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whis Posted June 21, 2023 Author Share Posted June 21, 2023 Just now, Katamari said: Just screw him already and get it over with Don't wanna hurt his feelings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImsoLOUD Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 11 minutes ago, Whis said: The other boy (the one I've been dating) suddenly rang my doorbell WHILE THE BOY FROM COLLEGE AND I WERE DOING THE THING oh yes hot GARBAGE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smarticle Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 yes boo, should've just broke it off first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khal Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 (edited) How is it that y'all are able to have active sex lives, but you can't just say the words "****" or sex like an adult? Tf is xxx and "doing the thing"? Anyway, since there's no commitment yet and you guys were just dating, your behaviour is kinda ick, but you haven't betrayed him or anything. Just tell him you're not feeling it and let him go Edited June 21, 2023 by Khal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
venuss Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 I'm in the same situation but instead of one.. well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#Beautiful Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 9 minutes ago, Illuminati said: If you have to ask... yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kayseri Mantisi Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 6 minutes ago, Khal said: How is it that y'all are able to have active sex lives, but you can't just say the words "****" or sex like an adult? Tf is xxx and "doing the thing"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whis Posted June 21, 2023 Author Share Posted June 21, 2023 10 minutes ago, Khal said: How is it that y'all are able to have active sex lives, but you can't just say the words "****" or sex like an adult? Tf is xxx and "doing the thing"? Don't wanna get wps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Legendary Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 Learn to communicate like an adult. You always risk hurting someone's feelings when you learn how to properly set boundaries and communicate, but it is what it is. "Hinting" is not clear communication, and you probably just end up stringing him along. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopKills Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 (edited) Do u ever feel like a trash bag? I mean you‘re not to blame for your feelings and since you’re not in a relationship I guess that hookup was not that much of an ******* move but gurl you need to tell him you don’t feel anything (and PLEASE don’t mention you’ve hooked up w someone else) Spoiler Edit: Also you seem like ur hot Edited June 21, 2023 by PopKills Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natcrus Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 Yeah lowkey, at least you feel bad tho... If it's obvious that he's catching feelings for you, the least you could do is tell him that you're not ready to be in a closed relationship. You shouldn't assume that he'll want to be in an open relationship as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnlyManInTheWorld Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 Yes, but we all are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katamari Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 23 minutes ago, Whis said: Don't wanna hurt his feelings Maybe he’s better for you? Give ‘em a chance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katamari Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 24 minutes ago, ImsoLOUD said: oh yes hot GARBAGE Desperate housewives tease Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBC Posted June 21, 2023 Share Posted June 21, 2023 you fumbled the 3some Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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