Cloy

What you need is to accept opinions different from yours! It was aight.

Needed a bit more elbow grease.

My avatar is not *****graphic though. It's a man licking another man's nipples. It's not extreme *****graphy. And if the mods/admin and members don't have a problem with it, why do you? Funny, how you're only bitching about it after I commented in this thread. My avatar seems to be real popular. I've gotten about 10 PMs about it so far. Seems like people don't mind. But what does my avatar have to do with me feeling like it is not okay to send unsolicited nudes to straight men or any men ? You're losing me with the tic for tat games. Adults should not use tic for tat analogies. Those are for children. What does what straight men do to straight women have to do with you as a gay man? Gay men who often give trashy straight men a past but want to appear moral when they're judged like they are. What they do to women doesn't reflect poorly on you, but what you do to them reflects poorly on me and YOU. This is about gay men's lack of boundaries and how they play into stereotypes but cry foul when they get called out. What makes them eager to send men who don't want them nudes? That seems kind of desperate and perverted, don't you think? I would feel the same way if women were sending me their boobs and clits every day. I don't want to see that ****. I am a homosexual!

What does my avatar have to do with how I carry myself in reference to the boundaries of others? Grasping at straws because you're a hit dog? ATRL is 95% gay-friendly so I feel comfortable with this avatar. It would be different if I was on The Coli or something.

So what. Respect people's boundaries. What you do doesn't only affect you. It affects me as well. Unfortunately, minorities are judged as a whole and not individually. I want to be seen as someone with high self-esteem, not a thirsty gay man who comes off like a socially awkward pervert. Stop giving credence to stereotypes. You guys need to realize how unattractive being thirsty is. People often desire those who they find unattainable, not some pick-me loser with zero self-esteem. See LPSG for the worst examples of thirsty gay men. They make us all look like unhinged perverts. @Phantom That's between a man and woman. You were never a part of the equation.

Ok?

And before someone says it isn't true. Yes, it is because I see this on Twittter a lot. You'll have a straight guy post straight porn starring himself and gay men will spam the comment section with pics of their behinds and *****. I swear a lot of gay men are socially awkward and you can tell they don't interact with men often. That's just sad.

Unsolicited advances like this are why straight men automatically assume all gay men want them. Why many of them do not feel comfortable around us. Then gay men have the audacity to cry homophobia when they're called out for their harassment. It's a crying shame these people represent me. I abhor them with a passion that is never-ending. Despicables.

Being pictured with someone doesn't equal friends.

Meh, Justin Bieber's feet are hotter, and no I don't like Justin Bieber. I just wanted to say that. :P

Justin is the GP's go to white male popstar. Shawn can forget about it. I remember when he went on this whole spill last year about fans seeing a new side of him and how he doesn't want them to be alarmed. Where is it? He's just as boring as ever. Justin is not my cup of tea either, but the GP chose him over Shawn. His career is still intact while Shawn's is barely hanging on. Nothing he does will get him out of Justin's shadow. He could knock a PR GF up and we still wouldn't care.

This PR ass relationship. Shawn Mendes needs to realize he will always be in Justin's shadow. He just doesn't have the appeal Justin does. Justin came first and the GP chose him. The public will never be interested in him based on who he dates. Sabrina can't even raise her career off of the ground. No one is checking for Shawn, so what the heck is she getting out of this? Hopefully, a check from his PR team.

A hit dog will holler. You keep going back and forward about an opinion that will never change. Again, Avril is too good for Tyga. This is a man who dates underage girl and is having sex with randoms on OF. But not too many pop girls can say that, and I'm sure plenty of them don't want to... Either way, this doesn't look good for Avril's legacy. BTW, I can still watch porn and not find the "actors" suitable to date. Just like I watch true-crime shows and gore content and not find mass murderers suitable to date. Where that hell did the rule that I can't come from? Woke Twitter?

Those tattoos ain't it. They ruined him. No ridiculous tattoos covering up large surfaces of the body is why Jonathan Majors and Michael B. Jordan are getting so much love. Us Body worshipers are tired of the tattoos. Tattoos are like having sex with a condom on. I want to feel your skin, not your ink. #savethebody

It's harassment at this point.