Adding my name to the list of breakups this year 

 

Who else is going through it right now? maybe we can help each other cope 

Ariana Grande and Taylor Swift

Well, Virgo is retrograding so a lot of changes in relationships are happening between now and early September. It’s a great moment to stop and reassess what you’ve learned in your past relationships and what do you need to heal before starting a new one. 

Hi, broke up a month ago but I’m here. 

 

34 minutes ago, Siblon said:

Hi, broke up a month ago but I’m here. 

 

How long were ya'll together? personally I was with my ex for almost 3 years in November. 

 

 

9 minutes ago, shinyshimmery said:

How long were ya'll together? personally I was with my ex for almost 3 years in November. 

 

 

I’m so sorry
We lasted about 1.5 years. First love, first heartbreak. 

1 hour ago, SinnerCity said:

Well, Virgo is retrograding so a lot of changes in relationships are happening between now and early September. It’s a great moment to stop and reassess what you’ve learned in your past relationships and what do you need to heal before starting a new one. 

I learned to not forgive a third time 

 

The first time it (infidelity) happened, I forgave him... he did it again, the worst part is finding out about it the hard way. We were building a house together, he wanted a hero... I wanted a life partner. I learned I will never fix anyone's life ever again. The next person will have to meet me halfway, bc I am not dating another insecure bum again. Well, he wasn't technically a "bum" but out of the two of us... I am the most financially responsible. 

Edited July 25, 20233 yr by shinyshimmery

19 minutes ago, Siblon said:

I’m so sorry
We lasted about 1.5 years. First love, first heartbreak. 

this is my first too. agonizing pain

Edited July 25, 20233 yr by shinyshimmery

1 hour ago, shinyshimmery said:

this is my first too. agonizing pain

Keep yourself distracted. See friends. Go out. Hike. Journal. Give yourself reasons why the breakup is a good thing. And listen to Susan Winters. Hope this helps you. It helped me a lot.