discussion Twitter gay complains about sexual racism - qtweets & replies CLOCK and SKULLDRAG him

[Slap]

Why are people so defensive when the subject of racism comes up that they have to spend their day trawling through somebody’s social media to pick them apart?

 

Nobody has to want to have sex with anybody they don’t want to, but expressing a broad brush preference against one or a group of races directly to somebody from that community is just unnecessary, incendiary and hurtful.

 

People should be capable of being honest with themselves and dealing with their own prejudices in their own time, but instead everyone gets defensive and psychotic on the internet, doxxing and abusing people. 

[SimpleKindofLife]

Nobody doubts that he experienced racism buy maybe he should take a look in the mirror and dip into the non-white pond

[Butters]

Informing people that their racial turnoffs are racist is a losing battle tbh and especially if you're a POC that lusts exclusively after white men

[Nightingale]

The Twitter poster likely does go after white men and is wrong for that but I still feel like people are missing that the Grindr user was also being blatantly racist

[Rotunda]

Sexual racism is obviously real and bad, but I’ve noticed that a ton of the QPOC that talk about it have clear preferences for white men themselves, which makes the convo exhausting. 
 

Also trying to shame or educate a bigot into being attracted to you is a waste of time. 
 

[Rotunda]

15 minutes ago, lmnoc1 said:

Does that white guy need to say it out that explicitly that he doesn't like the guys race or ethnicity? No. That is extremely rude.

 

But also sexual racism is not a thing. **** whoever you like. Although you don't have to make the rest feel bad like that

The white guy found the dude attractive until he learned he was Indian. He thought he was cute when he assumed he was Mediterranean. That’s the textbook example of sexual racism, even though everyone in this scenario is obnoxious.

[Gov Hooka]

Imagine chasing after white gays... couldn’t be me 

[John Slayne]

not people here defending these clearly racist 'preferences'  the guy literally only rejected him when he learned he had Indian heritage, please

 

i don't know the guy who posted these screenshots so won't comment on his likes or whatever, but he's right in his tweet. the gay community does have issues with sexual racism.

 

with that being said, i'm not sure if sending people articles on grindr actually helps anything. more often than not, the racist 'preference' gays either fully know they are racist and are doing it on purpose or they just really don't care. at the end of the day if someone doesn't want to f you then they won't do it, regardless of whether their 'preference' comes from their racist bias or not.

[John Slayne]

32 minutes ago, Slap said:

Nobody has to want to have sex with anybody they don’t want to, but expressing a broad brush preference against one or a group of races directly to somebody from that community is just unnecessary, incendiary and hurtful.

 

People should be capable of being honest with themselves and dealing with their own prejudices in their own time, but instead everyone gets defensive and psychotic on the internet, doxxing and abusing people. 

[UnusualBoy]

Sexual racism? People says any **** these days  

 

Anyway the grindr gay was racist as heck but the twitter hag has a lot of nerve considering his white passing ass thirsts over white man only…

Edited June 2, 2022 by UnusualBoy

[Peroxide]

…? The draggings here are undeserved. 
 

The guy in the Grindr chat was an ass… I couldn’t care less what this chaps “following” looks like. Totally unrelated to the discussion.

[ZIVERT]

The guy messaging him IS racist, how is he gonna outright say "I don't like Indians" like  That being said, a white-passing gay that seemingly exclusively hunts for white c0ck is probably not the right messenger for this soapbox

[Rotunda]

3 minutes ago, lmnoc1 said:

There is no problem about that if you don't say that out

Why are you afraid to say something if you don’t think it’s a problem

[Rotunda]

Just now, lmnoc1 said:

So you are sexual sexism if you don't want to **** women?

Answer my question and I’ll answer yours 

[Rotunda]

Just now, lmnoc1 said:

When it comes to sex, you should be entitled to your own opinion. Whenever you want to **** or not **** a certain race, **** or not **** men, **** or not **** women. Yes you are only hurting other people when you put them into words

Oh so you never tell people your sexuality?

[Obsession]

I think sexual racism is real, but I also don't wanna sleep with a racist so that would be the end of the conversation.

[Jynx672]

Can we make "gaycel" a word? Because that's exactly what this is.

[Rotunda]

Just now, lmnoc1 said:

Isn't that my own choice too? Don't make decisions for other people

You just said people shouldn’t though. Babe are you listening to yourself?

[bliaz]

Hypocrite

[Rotunda]

Just now, lmnoc1 said:

Yes honey, I literally said you shouldn't tell your sexual preference out loud like that when it's hurting other people. How does that has to do with my sexuality???

I mean this with all due respect, you are not smart. 

 

[Jagger]

Idk why he's getting dragged? He's 100% right. The dude was into him completely until he found out he was Indian. That's racist as ****. His own preferences don't negate that 

[Rotunda]

Just now, lmnoc1 said:

You are not an angel either. You know forcing everyone to interracial sex itself is racism as well

Again, I’m not sure if you’re literate. I literally said there’s no point in trying to change people’s’ sexual preferences/behaviors 

[Rotunda]

1 minute ago, lmnoc1 said:

Also total loser argument when you give up your fight like this lol

You explicitly stated people shouldn’t share their sexual preferences. You explicitly juxtaposed gender with race and other characteristics of those preferences. You then were unable to answer whether or not you share whether you like men/women with people. You then got confused about whether there is a distinction between sexuality and sexual preference. I then surmised that you don’t know what you’re talking about so I made fun of you.

[Rotunda]

8 minutes ago, lmnoc1 said:

Sir you are entitled to your own radical opinion here. 

 

My argument is much more centrist. Respect for other races, gender, age during your social engagement. Your language hurts so you don't need to point out your sexual preference because it's rude. 

 

You are arguing sexual racism as that everyone should be having sex with any other race without preference. It's radical because you can argue the same with no preference having sex with any other age or sex. Otherwise you are sexual sexism and sexual ageism. Which I simply disagree

Nothing is radical about my opinion. People should be allowed to sleep with whoever they want. But if you find somebody attractive but then decide you are no longer attracted to them once you learn their race (a socially constructed category that also varies by culture), then you’re a racist. 
 

I don’t think you should be forced to change your racist preferences, nor do I think someone should waste their time trying to get you to change your preferences. You’re just a racist. 
 

And your refusal to stand ten-toes down and proudly say you don’t like people of a certain racial group is because you know you’re racist and that it’s not something you should be saying.
 

The sheer stupidity of your gender comparison is because you’ve already inconsistently admitted you think there’s a difference between sexuality and sexual preference, meaning you don’t have a problem telling people you’re gay but you do have a problem telling people you don’t find certain races attractive. 

Edited June 2, 2022 by Rotunda

[Rotunda]

1 minute ago, lmnoc1 said:

I don't know what's hard to grasp. He putting out his sexual preference in that Grindr convo like that is RUDE. 

If you don’t think it’s bigoted then what makes it rude? Isn’t Grindr a place to share sexual preferences?