Princess Aurora Posted October 28 Posted October 28 Also, Imagine dating people based on skin color. It must be boring 6
The7thStranger Posted October 28 Posted October 28 Honestly, I've never understood why people get so upset about who others date or sleep with, unless those people are abusive. Get a life. 1 2
Reginald Posted October 28 Posted October 28 7 hours ago, Bussea said: the same way i date u and you have my name in your phone as "bbc baby 🙈❤️🧔🏿♂️" --- I have run into a number of guys of various ethnicities who are only into black guys (like myself) and I have to admit it's hot as f**k As long as we have other things in common, I genuinely like being someone's preference
Khal Posted October 28 Posted October 28 They're usually also the loudest when it comes to complaining about how racist white people are for not finding them desirable. And I always think, yeah that sucks, but have you seen yourself and what you're practising? 5
ScorpiosGroove Posted October 28 Posted October 28 10 hours ago, David_Greengrass97 said: Me, a Vietnamese twink dating a white Englishman. I better find a hole to hide 🙈 hide in his 1
David_Greengrass97 Posted October 28 Posted October 28 Just now, ScorpiosGroove said: hide in his I'm a bottom, ma'am
SmittenCake Posted October 28 Author Posted October 28 5 hours ago, The7thStranger said: Honestly, I've never understood why people get so upset about who others date or sleep with, unless those people are abusive. Get a life. Thank you smart ass the last person who made this comment without even reading the OP deleted what they said. Pay attention. 3
The7thStranger Posted October 28 Posted October 28 1 hour ago, SmittenCake said: Thank you smart ass the last person who made this comment without even reading the OP deleted what they said. Pay attention. I did read your post. I just don't get why you care.
SmittenCake Posted October 28 Author Posted October 28 1 minute ago, The7thStranger said: I did read your post. I just don't get why you care. If you knew how to read, you would know why this particular instance would have to involve how I feel. You people love to be edgy and end up looking a FOOL.
The7thStranger Posted October 28 Posted October 28 4 minutes ago, SmittenCake said: If you knew how to read, you would know why this particular instance would have to involve how I feel. You people love to be edgy and end up looking a FOOL. I'm the one who looks like a fool? ...not the one who felt the need to make a thread about their friend's love life on ATRL? What a great friend you are.
SmittenCake Posted October 28 Author Posted October 28 1 minute ago, The7thStranger said: I'm the one who looks like a fool? ...not the one who felt the need to make a thread about their friend's love life on ATRL? What a great friend you are. Now you're switching the subjecting coz I CLOCKED u so good GOOFY
The7thStranger Posted October 28 Posted October 28 Just now, SmittenCake said: Now you're switching the subjecting coz I CLOCKED u so good GOOFY Look. I'm POC and the result of an interracial marriage, so I can understand the frustration having to listen to your friend whine and complain and moan about trying to make somebody else into something they aren't. But at the same time, I find it in incredibly poor taste to be this concerned about somebody else's love life. And really gross to make a thread about it on ATRL. But it's all good. u zo CLOCKED mi sooo sgoood llmaaoooOOoo 1 1
Katamari Posted October 28 Posted October 28 11 hours ago, Jotham said: No lol it's this person named Jkab Ethan Dale. But the Nair person has also said a lot of weird stuff about race. Oh him…. Not surprised
SmittenCake Posted October 28 Author Posted October 28 16 minutes ago, The7thStranger said: Look. I'm POC and the result of an interracial marriage, so I can understand the frustration having to listen to your friend whine and complain and moan about trying to make somebody else into something they aren't. But at the same time, I find it in incredibly poor taste to be this concerned about somebody else's love life. And really gross to make a thread about it on ATRL. But it's all good. u zo CLOCKED mi sooo sgoood llmaaoooOOoo You clearly didn't read my post. You came up in hear thinking I was bad mouthing interracial relationship. Bye. 1 1
The7thStranger Posted October 28 Posted October 28 18 minutes ago, SmittenCake said: You clearly didn't read my post. You came up in hear thinking I was bad mouthing interracial relationship. Bye. That's... not what I was claiming. God, go back to school and learn how to read. 1
SmittenCake Posted October 28 Author Posted October 28 6 minutes ago, The7thStranger said: That's... not what I was claiming. God, go back to school and learn how to read. Take your own advice 1
Romova99 Posted October 28 Posted October 28 11 hours ago, Onyxmage said: Putting white people on a pedestal is something that POC will always do and its extremely embarrassing. Like there's literally nothing special about white people. I don't understand it, it really pisses me off so much when I see this. 2
Onyxmage Posted October 28 Posted October 28 1 hour ago, Romova99 said: I don't understand it, it really pisses me off so much when I see this. I believe its decades of brainwashing from western media + a whitewashing of history that puts it into our brains that white people are somehow better. They are represented in a better light where often POC are presented in a more negative way. This is done on purpose by the way. 1
John Slayne Posted October 29 Posted October 29 (edited) i think anyone who has these super strict (and shallow) preferences that they are not willing to budge on and then complain they can't find anyone is very annoying tbh... but yes the racial element gives an extra layer of ick. edit: also yes everyone is entitled to have their 'preference' and nobody can force you to date someone you do not want to date, but y'all need to understand that when you start broadcasting these 'preferences' into the world you might hear an opinion on it you don't like. Edited October 29 by John Slayne
John Slayne Posted October 29 Posted October 29 14 hours ago, Reginald said: --- I have run into a number of guys of various ethnicities who are only into black guys (like myself) and I have to admit it's hot as f**k As long as we have other things in common, I genuinely like being someone's preference not shaming you for feeling that way at all, but you don't think that in dating that kind of fetishization spoils the connection? attraction and sexuality are complicated and of course the visual element is important, but i wouldn't want to have a serious relationship with someone who is only with me to fulfill a very specific sexual fantasy... Spoiler hookups are another thing, i'll gladly be someone's fantasy for an evening if i find them attractive lol
Alldeezy Posted October 29 Posted October 29 Your Vietnamese friend just sounds like he likes alt chicks and im an alt chick looking for a cute Asian boyfriend but people have a perf tbh. Like I feel sad when Asians only want to date there own when I'm like please notice me 1
UrMom Posted October 30 Posted October 30 Meh the heart wants what it wants and sometimes people's politics and desires run in opposite directions. Just don't obnoxiously announce your preferences to everyone.
Bencharmer Posted October 31 Posted October 31 On 10/28/2024 at 3:23 AM, SmittenCake said: I dunno. Try maybe dating someone who has a similar background to you!? Sorry but that advice is dumb.
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