fememeist Posted May 12 Author Posted May 12 9 minutes ago, EtherealCat said: your both atrlers like what was the plan there Spoiler To feel wanted and loved for the first time maybe https://twitter.com/gay_reactions/status/1284896479681757185
fememeist Posted May 12 Author Posted May 12 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Mr. Peanutbutter said: Yeah I'm sure he was surprised as having someone from another country baking you a whole as$ birthday cake so you can imaginarily eat is not something very... common. I have the video/photo receipts of the cake I made, so no imaginations coming from here edit: Edited May 12 by fememeist 3
makeme Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Love is difficult especially as a gay man. Try to find happiness where you can life is so short Sorry this happened to you 13
fememeist Posted May 12 Author Posted May 12 10 minutes ago, Katamari said: Yeah that's a weird response tbh lmao you did the right thing Thank you for being really kind to my rant, and I mean the red flags were right there in front of me, but I really was being delusional for the sake of wanting this to actually happen. 1
KFC Posted May 12 Posted May 12 What was the reason you felt like posting this here instead of writing it in your journal 4
Kassi Posted May 12 Posted May 12 27 minutes ago, EtherealCat said: your both atrlers like what was the plan there To be fair, I met my best friend of 12 years on ATRL in 2012. We also happened to be going to the same university so it helped that we got to build a friendship in person over 4 years. If we had been sexually attracted to each other, he could very well have been my soulmate. Anything is possible if there's enough intent behind it. 4
visions Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Everyone being rude af for no reason, just malicious gay fa***try 40 minutes ago, fememeist said: On his 31st/32nd(?) birthday, I recorded a video of me baking a cake with his favorite tea flavor and making a popular birthday soup + meal in his culture This is v v sweet of you and he didn't deserve it, no ATRLer does 10 4
Kassi Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Sorry to hear that, fememeist. I'm sure you'll find someone more aligned with what you have to offer. You seem like a sweet guy and many people tend to take that for granted. 1
The Next Day Posted May 12 Posted May 12 (edited) Honestly, I first thought it's a bit cringe to make such a thread but you seem sweet. And I can relate to being naive when it comes to dating and thinking the other person would want to act in your interest. 16 minutes ago, fememeist said: edit: Uh... Looks interesting I'm sorry, I can't bake so I can't even judge Edited May 12 by The Next Day 8
Popular Post Almodusa Posted May 12 Popular Post Posted May 12 46 minutes ago, fememeist said: I gave him my Taylor Swift cardigan because he's a swiftie and I knew he'd love it. 46 minutes ago, fememeist said: On his 31st/32nd(?) birthday 16
Smarticle Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Me when genie found out I was asian, except no meet up @Psycho @BLΔCKP!NK 3
naval23 Posted May 12 Posted May 12 good for you! you took away a lot of valuable things like new hobbies, self care which I think regardless of outcome was something good that came out of this and for not being strung along and deciding to ghost is probably the best way for you to protect your time and energy 3
Odette Violet Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Aww, sorry to hear that OP. Hope you finds inner peace and someone you're compatible with 1
shyboi Posted May 12 Posted May 12 OP is actually very sweet and thoughtful , i'm sure you will find someone that truly deserves you hun never settle for less 3
fememeist Posted May 12 Author Posted May 12 1 minute ago, KFC said: What was the reason you felt like posting this here instead of writing it in your journal I journaled this as well, but it didn't feel as good as posting this here in semi anonymity. 2
Harsh2256 Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Why would you ever try to make it serious with someone from atrl of all places? What were u guys supposed to speak? "Xyz 5th week streams tanked"?, I feel bad for you but it's almost as if all of this could have been avoided. Now i wanna know who the guy was also this is why I hate being gay. 2 2
artc0cx Posted May 12 Posted May 12 I want an Atrl boyfriend too He sounds like a douche, glad you're trying to move on 3
Dolce Vita Posted May 12 Posted May 12 @fememeist i didn't get to read ur reply before u hid the first thread but i hope u find love and happiness one day, and at least u gained new hobbies and self value after what happened 1
fememeist Posted May 12 Author Posted May 12 10 minutes ago, DeadInside said: Why do you think he's not into you? Despite there being a language/cultural barrier, I just know from previous experiences what a person whose invested into you will look like vs someone that's not.
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