discussion A co-worker that you don't really like flirts with you, what do you do?

[Colmillo]

This is my situation at the moment and I don't know what to do, specially because I see him often at the office

 

 

[Rotunda]

Is it that one ATRLer who's always making threads about his coworker

[ontherocks]

Don't be gay and just suck him off 

[gatito]

talk to hr and suck him off before he finds out

[Colmillo]

3 minutes ago, Rotunda said:

Is it that one ATRLer who's always making threads about his coworker

No (?) this is the first thread I make about this topic 

[magazine]

They are most likely just joking

[tost1]

Have sex with them and then make it awkward so they quit. 

[Colmillo]

1 minute ago, ontherocks said:

Don't be gay and just suck him off 

The point of this thread is literally that I don't want to do that 

 

1 minute ago, gatito said:

talk to hr and suck him off before he finds out

[kellysclarkson]

1 minute ago, Colmillo said:

No (?) this is the first thread I make about this topic 

They meant is your coworker another ATRLer making horny posts about their coworker 

[KatyPrismSpirit]

Distance yourself a little more from them while still remaining respectful 

[Gabriel]

Call HR and say youre being harassed and get them fired. 

 

Truthfully: Distance yourself, or just become incredibly cold and leave every interactive asap. Been there and it works they'll take the hint. 

[Colmillo]

3 minutes ago, kellysclarkson said:

They meant is your coworker another ATRLer making horny posts about their coworker 

Oh, I hope not 

[Rush]

@Hot Volcano Thoughts?

[glitch]

Be really disgusting and give him the ick. Pick your nose, fart, burp, eat with your mouth open, lick your fingers every time before you start typing, don't wash, wear the same clothes for weeks. Soon enough he won't be able to stand to be within 10 metres of you

[kellebrity98]

Just now, glitch said:

Be really disgusting and give him the ick. Pick your nose, fart, burp, eat with your mouth open, lick your fingers every time before you start typing, don't wash, wear the same clothes for weeks. Soon enough he won't be able to stand to be within 10 metres of you

no one will

[Colmillo]

8 minutes ago, magazine said:

They are most likely just joking

It's not the kind of flirting that you can tell it's a joke, it's more subtle, you know what I mean?

[Dante]

Ive been in that situation. I just ignored her comments and tried to turn them into a joke every time and she stopped eventually.

[itshyolee]

Show obvious signs that you're not interested by being firm and cold. Be a total biatch

[Hot Volcano]

 Smile whenever you see him, say hi to him in the hallways, be sure to include him into everything

[Colmillo]

8 minutes ago, KatyPrismSpirit said:

Distance yourself a little more from them while still remaining respectful 

 

6 minutes ago, Gabriel said:

Call HR and say youre being harassed and get them fired. 

 

Truthfully: Distance yourself, or just become incredibly cold and leave every interactive asap. Been there and it works they'll take the hint. 

But I feel bad because he doesn't have many friends in the office, I don't want him feeling like he's the problem, but he's kinda clingy and I don't like that 

[Colmillo]

4 minutes ago, glitch said:

Be really disgusting and give him the ick. Pick your nose, fart, burp, eat with your mouth open, lick your fingers every time before you start typing, don't wash, wear the same clothes for weeks. Soon enough he won't be able to stand to be within 10 metres of you

Girl I don't want to scare away my real crushes from the office 

[Colmillo]

2 minutes ago, Hot Volcano said:

 Smile whenever you see him, say hi to him in the hallways, be sure to include him into everything

[glitch]

Just now, Colmillo said:

Girl I don't want to scare away my real crushes from the office 

Oh...then just tell him you watch videos of puppies being drowned in your spare time

[Gabriel]

1 minute ago, Colmillo said:

 

But I feel bad because he doesn't have many friends in the office, I don't want him feeling like he's the problem, but he's kinda clingy and I don't like that 

You need to choose:

 

1. Will you be friendly and make him happy, but you're uncomfortable at work.

2. You get distance for a comfortable environment, he is sad.

[itshyolee]

2 minutes ago, Colmillo said:

But I feel bad because he doesn't have many friends in the office, I don't want him feeling like he's the problem, but he's kinda clingy and I don't like that 

Well girl you either do that or enjoy being harassed by someone you don't like!