discussion is hooking up with someone else during the talking stage cheating?

[mrpartyrocker]

On 10/25/2023 at 8:19 AM, mrpartyrocker said:

If you’ve established you want to be exclusive while dating, then yea, it’s bad. If not… well I guess it depends on the person. If you’re too horny and can’t keep it in your pants more than 5 minutes, then you do you babe. But I’d assume you have sex as well if you’re dating and if it was that good, it wouldn’t make you want someone else… 

Well here I am few days later and the guy I was seeing which I had something official with for the past few weeks, it turned out he’s been cheating… I hate gay relationships. And I asked him to be honest, to not fool me around…. Haha joke’s on me. 

[CorbynBlessing]

It depends but I lean towards yes. I was talking to a guy like every second, all the time and we both really liked each other and he knew I got jealous if he was with other guys and it felt like we were together just not officially and then he literally hooked up and it hurt me I'm ngl  I may be a mess, but it definitely hurt me. I was so jealous after.

 

Long story short, we stayed talking for a while but I didn't trust he'd be faithful because he kept ******* people.

[BletaRexher]

90% of the time the other person is doing it so why not 

[Bears01]

Like many have said, no, it’s not cheating, but it essentially turns you into a giant 🚩 that’s not worth someone else’s time 

[MonsterJohn]

I think after the 1st date both of you would have pretty clear idea of whether it would head to sth serious, so if that the case you would be such an ******* to keep hooking up w other people