Asscatchem Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 if you only met someone youre interested in twice but see big potential to foster a relationship with but some himbo you dont want to be romantically involved with presents you with an opportunity is it cheating? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bhabylon Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 Nah you’re not official yet, go get your cheeks clapped 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pendulum Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 Um unless we VERBALLY agree that we're official, I'm free to **** with whoever I want and he is as well. I'm annoyed at people who conflate dating with FWBs or situationships. 5 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trent W Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 Nope Until you don’t have that conversation you are nothing more than people who know each other Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asscatchem Posted October 25, 2023 Author Share Posted October 25, 2023 1 minute ago, Pendulum said: I'm annoyed at people who conflate dating with FWBs or situationships. i mean i think he's really cute and i secretly caught him having me pinned on his whatsapp ajdkslf; weve been texting long distance (surprisingly) for months and it may be official in like 2 more dates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GraceRandolph Posted October 25, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2023 Let’s be honest. If you have to ask the question it’s cheating. 23 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karla Cabello Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 no 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LustSpell Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 **** no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dumbsparce Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 It's not cheating but if it happened to you and you found out, it would still hurt your feelings, no? 7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blade Runner Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Finite Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 (edited) Well ATRL user Asscatchem, no Unless there has been a verbal commitment, or you two are official, then no! Just practice safe sex! But at least you’re asking, that shows you have a conscience and that is refreshing on ATRL. Edited October 25, 2023 by Finite 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post #Beautiful Posted October 25, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2023 technically not but it makes you an unreliable undesireable loser 12 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrettyHurts Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 of course not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Outlaws Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 22 minutes ago, Bhabylon said: Nah you’re not official yet, go get your cheeks clapped Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asscatchem Posted October 25, 2023 Author Share Posted October 25, 2023 1 minute ago, #Beautiful said: an unreliable undesireable loser might as well be a yes then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SimpleKindofLife Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 This is a great question tbh. If you’ve established with the person that you’re talking to that you’re interested in dating eventually then why do you feel the need to hook up with other people? It’s not cheating but it sets the precedent that maybe you’re not ready to be fully committed to someone, and there’s nothing wrong with that of course. 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
POPTART Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 I wouldn't say it's cheating as you're still not official. But are you really into that person if you're already thinking about someone else, especially in that phase when it's suppose to be all new and exciting? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cain Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 Uhm no? Tf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post May Posted October 25, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2023 in the technical sense it’s not cheating however in the cultural sense, I just speak in future tense Judas, kiss me if offensed, or wear ear condom next time 3 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gorjesspazze9 Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 If your not in a relationship with someone, then your not in a relationship. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChapelHooker Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 i don’t think so no, but i think the other person would be valid in being disappointed and not pursue the relationship further 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asscatchem Posted October 25, 2023 Author Share Posted October 25, 2023 2 minutes ago, SimpleKindofLife said: This is a great question tbh. If you’ve established with the person that you’re talking to that you’re interested in dating eventually then why do you feel the need to hook up with other people? It’s not cheating but it sets the precedent that maybe you’re not ready to be fully committed to someone, and there’s nothing wrong with that of course. 1 minute ago, POPTART said: I wouldn't say it's cheating as you're still not official. But are you really into that person if you're already thinking about someone else, especially in that phase when it's suppose to be all new and exciting? i dont even know if he's a top or a bottom but tbh i dont really care, his face is super cute, were both athletic (he's in a team sport), and he's really bright and smart and convos are somewhat stimulating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrpartyrocker Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 If you’ve established you want to be exclusive while dating, then yea, it’s bad. If not… well I guess it depends on the person. If you’re too horny and can’t keep it in your pants more than 5 minutes, then you do you babe. But I’d assume you have sex as well if you’re dating and if it was that good, it wouldn’t make you want someone else… 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alldeezy Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 no .. If it's not official. though I got caught out when I was crashing at my ex's place while I talking with my crush .. but to be fair we haven't even kissed yet so he shouldn't even gotten mad about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitnessOblivia Posted October 25, 2023 Share Posted October 25, 2023 It's not cheating, but I do think it might damage your future relationship. I personally wouldn't do it. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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