BOOMBAYAH Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 21 - 22 is pushing it, 23+ is deffo weird
Cheers Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 20. Why would you date someone you can’t legally drink with for 3 years? It’s weird!
BloodLuster Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 13 minutes ago, Tropez said: 20. And anything older is weird I was typing this. a 18 y/o should be dating another 18 y/o or a 19 at most.
Trent W Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 Why is this site always talking about 18 year olds? Everyone here is in their mid/late 20s or 30s. There might be very few teens here. It’s becoming disturbing.
Armani? Posted December 12, 2022 Author Posted December 12, 2022 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Trent W said: Why is this site always talking about 18 year olds? Everyone here is in their mid/late 20s or 30s. There might be very few teens here. It’s becoming disturbing. Not there yet But this site is skewing older 2/3 of the site is 24 and older Edited December 12, 2022 by Armani?
Thinking Of You Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 35 minutes ago, Armani? said: Im younger than over half this forum so... 18 - 22 is in college age bracket, not understanding how that's "wierd" No shade, but if you would’ve went to college, it would be easier to understand. When you’re a senior in college, especially the semester you graduate, you are already in the adult mindset. You’re trying to start a career, most people already have jobs lined up, or have decided to go to graduate school. You’re setting up your adult life. You aren’t thinking at all about freshman. They even come across as children at that point. It just feels weird.
Armani? Posted December 12, 2022 Author Posted December 12, 2022 6 minutes ago, Thinking Of You said: No shade, but if you would’ve went to college, it would be easier to understand. When you’re a senior in college, especially the semester you graduate, you are already in the adult mindset. You’re trying to start a career, most people already have jobs lined up, or have decided to go to graduate school. You’re setting up your adult life. You aren’t thinking at all about freshman. They even come across as children at that point. It just feels weird. Ok, I guess that makes sense in that perspective I did start college btw, but didn't stay in. But not everyone goes to college so that sentiment wouldn't necessarily be the exact same for them I suppose. The only thing that would be annoying is not being able to drink in public with them & not being able to enter bars with them
Thinking Of You Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 2 minutes ago, Armani? said: The only thing that would be annoying is not being able to drink in public with them & not being able to enter bars with them Eh, it’s not even just that. A lack of responsibilities, maturity, some sort of life experience, etc. There’s a wider gap there than you think.
ninasayers Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 I'm 19 and I'd feel comfortable with dating someone who's up to 25 or so. I think it's kinda odd for someone who's over that age to want to date a teen, but who am i to judge.
jezebelvictoria Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 I don't give a sh*t how old I get; if any hot guy that's 18+ wants their d sucked, it's happening.
BOOMBAYAH Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 2 minutes ago, jezebelvictoria said: I don't give a sh*t how old I get; if any hot guy that's 18+ wants their d sucked, it's happening. You sound desperate no shade
Armani? Posted December 12, 2022 Author Posted December 12, 2022 10 minutes ago, Thinking Of You said: Eh, it’s not even just that. A lack of responsibilities, maturity, some sort of life experience, etc. There’s a wider gap there than you think. Then it would depend on that person There are certainly some 18 years olds more mature than someone 21, and vice versa Just depends on each person's experience at their ages, but it's not wierd to me on a surface level
BGKC Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 (edited) I think it depends if they’re still in HS or not really. Being 24 and dating a senior in HS seems a little strange. An 18 year old should be focused on school and developing longing relationships with their peers. After HS I’d say 24 is the limit but even so, it’s not exactly my business. 30 is obviously very questionable tho. Edited December 12, 2022 by BGKC
Chika Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 Anything over 20 should put you on a list somewhere
Ger Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 I was 19 when I started a relationship with my boyfriend (27). Sure the age gap showed, but somehow I don't feel I was easily manipulated/controlled. I have to say I was "lucky", me and him are still very good friends and he isn't an a*shole as most guys. I do think we're still super young and vulnerable at that age and we should be super careful.
Bacardo Royale Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 The limit does not exist. When I was 18 all I wanted was men in their 30s, yall should mind your own damn business
bync Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 (edited) Depends on the situation, but in all cases, 23+ is pretty weird. Edited December 12, 2022 by bync
bleuwaffle Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 i'm 26 now and i can't imagine wanting to be around an 18 year old enough to wanna date them. i was an idiot back then, emotionally vulnerable due to my lack of experience. couldn't go out or do adult things, wtf would i relate to a 26 year old about?
brenda-walsh Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 i think once you hit 25, but honestly even 21+ feels weird. once you get to drinking age everything 18 feels like a child in some ways
Into The Void Posted December 12, 2022 Posted December 12, 2022 (edited) I mean in Hollywood age doesn't exist How is 18 and 20 weird that's like a freshmen and sophomore in college. Edited December 12, 2022 by Insanity
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