discussion Messy gay posts story of how he caught the monkeypox virus

[bliaz]

29 minutes ago, shookspeare said:

the way delusional gays continue to deny that gay men are way more promiscuous on average than other populations

 

the DELUSION, and yes I have internalized homophobia and it's because of things like this

 

 

 

 

Same, tbh 

[Acid]

I lost it at ¨birthday orgy¨ 

[TheArgonaut]

His ******* must be a ******* Petri dish right now 

[Gui Blackout]

3 minutes ago, shookspeare said:

It literally spreads disease, just like people who refuse to be vaccinated spread disease. ATRL criticizes the latter group, but the sex positive gays won't do the same for the former? The logic doesn't track and it's only because it's apparently a god given right to get rawed by 15 random men in one night

 

I'm just as critical of extreme promiscuity in heteros but let's not act dumb and pretend there's no difference between the sex lives of heterosexual and homosexual populations

You shouldn't be critical of anyone's promiscuity cause it's none of your business. And that guy is a sex worker, not just someone doing it for fun.

 

That comparison makes no sense cause there is a monkeypox vaccine and gay men are going in droves to get it even tho it's not being effectively distributed and advertised. It's still relatively early in this monkeypox situation, there's still a lot of lack of information for the larger population, a lot don't know the scope of the spread, similarly to the early days of covid. 

 

This **** shaming is not helping anyone. This is one time that the gay community needs to come together and help each other, inform each other, support each other. Cause we know from experience that once this gets broadly labeled as a gay disease we're on our own.

[Breathe On Moi]

the people in this thread defending him omfg 

 

burn ATRL tf down! please! 

[Twilish]

If someone is confident enough to post they drank a football team worth of piss then they can for sure handle the potential backlash  i don’t know why criticizing the fact someone shares this kind of info with random people on the internet is all of a sudden homophobic or self hating. I’d say the same if it was a straight person. I think monkeypox is the least of his worries, judging by his lifestyle 

[Taylucifer]

and he’s surprised he caught it? 

 

Edited July 25, 2022 by Taylucifer

[Breathe On Moi]

2 minutes ago, Gui Blackout said:

this gets broadly labeled as a gay disease we're on our own.

babe you know I love your posts otherwise, but this is LITERALLY what ppl like him are making sure this disease gets labeled as! 

[shookspeare]

5 minutes ago, Gui Blackout said:

You shouldn't be critical of anyone's promiscuity cause it's none of your business. And that guy is a sex worker, not just someone doing it for fun.

 

That comparison makes no sense cause there is a monkeypox vaccine and gay men are going in droves to get it even tho it's not being effectively distributed and advertised. It's still relatively early in this monkeypox situation, there's still a lot of lack of information for the larger population, a lot don't know the scope of the spread, similarly to the early days of covid. 

 

This **** shaming is not helping anyone. This is one time that the gay community needs to come together and help each other, inform each other, support each other. Cause we know from experience that once this gets broadly labeled as a gay disease we're on our own.

Hope you weren't on here dragging people for not vaccinating and/or wearing masks then because this is exactly the logic that those people use

 

It is our business because if this type of behavior weren't normalized among our own maybe 70% of HIV diagnoses wouldn't be among gay men. You talk about caring about your community, but encouraging destructive behavior is neither loving nor caring

 

 

[EdgeofTeeth]

What a complete and utter moron  Natural selection, do your thing!

[hardbrit]

This is why everyone drags the LGBT community. There is an alert for gays because monkeypox is spreading among them, everyone should be safe!

[Gui Blackout]

17 minutes ago, shookspeare said:

Hope you weren't on here dragging people for not vaccinating and/or wearing masks then because this is exactly the logic that those people use

 

It is our business because if this type of behavior weren't normalized among our own maybe 70% of HIV diagnoses wouldn't be among gay men. You talk about caring about your community, but encouraging destructive behavior is neither loving nor caring

 

 

Again, this comparison would make sense if monkeypox was a pandemic at level of covid, with the awareness and information as widely available, and these people were willingly refusing to get an easily obtained vaccine... all of which is not true. 

 

And if you think the spread of AIDS within the gay community was entirely at their promiscuity's fault... then you really need to learn some history.

Edited July 25, 2022 by Gui Blackout

[hardbrit]

9 minutes ago, shookspeare said:

Hope you weren't on here dragging people for not vaccinating and/or wearing masks then because this is exactly the logic that those people use

 

It is our business because if this type of behavior weren't normalized among our own maybe 70% of HIV diagnoses wouldn't be among gay men. You talk about caring about your community, but encouraging destructive behavior is neither loving nor caring

 

 

Thank you for this post!

[BOOMBAYAH]

13 minutes ago, shookspeare said:

Hope you weren't on here dragging people for not vaccinating and/or wearing masks then because this is exactly the logic that those people use

 

It is our business because if this type of behavior weren't normalized among our own maybe 70% of HIV diagnoses wouldn't be among gay men. You talk about caring about your community, but encouraging destructive behavior is neither loving nor caring

 

 

[Distantconstellation]

Yes straight men are also promiscuous but not to the extent that gay men are. They are not having massive orgies where they are drinking piss. 

 

If monkey pox werent a thing, i wouldnt care, go have sex with the whole world if u want, but unfortunately that behavior is spreading it. It has nothing to do with internalized homophobia, thats just something u clowns tell yourself to feel better. 

[infrared]

Gays can ya’ll stop with the orgies and getting bred by random men 

 

having sex is fine but some of have a serious addiction 

[byzantium]

This guy seems to be enjoying his life. Not my cup of tea, but I am happy for him.  

[byzantium]

1 minute ago, infrared said:

Gays can ya’ll stop with the orgies and getting bred by random men 

 

having sex is fine but some of have a serious addiction 

What about an orgy with your close friends acquaintances? 

[PoisonCandy]

Just saw another guy on TikTok talking about how he caught it from kissing randoms in a club  I'm sorry but if you're doing all this ****, you've got to expect to catch something, whether it's Monkeypox, Covid, or something else.

[rihannabiggestfan]

1 hour ago, ProudLBS said:

Gay men being the only demographic where the norm is to have 4+ sexual partners in 1 year instead of just 1 partner 

 

https://contexts.org/blog/an-unequal-distribution-of-partners-gays-versus-straights/

WOW.

 

49 minutes ago, JohnWayneHolland said:

I'm a proud **** shamer so I can say that his behavior is disgusting and that he deserved to get monkeypox 

Same tbh

 

And EWW at those tweets.

 

(#LegalizeSexWork tho)

[infrared]

2 minutes ago, byzantium said:

What about an orgy with your close friends acquaintances? 

I mean it’s safer but everyone in the group needs to be on same page. I mean we all had our covid bubbles - not covid-proof but better than nothing. 
 

the problem is more about restraint than the # of people. You can have sex with many different people and still be sexually healthy. 

[shookspeare]

10 minutes ago, Gui Blackout said:

Again, this comparison would make sense if monkeypox was a pandemic at level of covid, with the awareness and information as wildly available, and these people were willingly refusing to get an easily obtained vaccine... all of which is not true. 

 

And if you think the spread of AIDS within the gay community was entirely at their promiscuity's fault... then you really need to learn some history.

Well funnily enough the WHO just declared monkeypox a global health emergency at the same level as covid! Trust the science, right? 

 

I'm just using HIV/AIDS as one example, and of course promiscuity wasn't the only factor that made (and still make) gay individuals by far the most frequent vectors of disease. But are you actually going to pretend that a sexually transmitted virus like HIV (and most often spread through unprotected sex, at that) wouldn't be most often propagated by the risky sex that gay men are more likely to engage in? I know it's an uncomfortable reality to face, but the fact that some of you all really choose to act like it's not a problem is astounding to me and ironically counterproductive to the wellbeing of LGBT individuals you claim to care so much about 

 

 

 

[Vermillion]

All of this noise around this story, even just within the community. I'm trying to draw something productive out of it, and failing. 

 

The global accredited psychological community can't agree on "sex addiction" being a thing. 

 

The social media shaming clearly isn't working, nor has it worked in the past, and not just with AIDS either. Especially for a sex worker. Even if he is drinking the piss of 40 people in just days.

 

If you're letting his actions define you, I'd question that the people making that blanket accusations about gay male sexual habits would be making the accusations about all gay men even if this guy wasn't doing any of this. Fretting over a stereotype and making this one person a scapegoat isn't productive. 

 

All these keyboard warriors thinking they're doing something productive on Twitter when less than 20% of the U.S. is on Twitter. 

 

Call your representatives and tell them to get the feds to increase the Jynneos stockpile in the States that's been stalled and has to rely on Denmark because of a stupid ****ing monopoly in this country and a shut down plant that prevents increased vaccine production. 

 

If you want to argue about cynicism about the feds taking any proper action, fine - you don't need to tell me that, I've worked on the Hill and am over all of it. But it's certainly a better use of your time than complaining about this one porn star on Twitter. 

 

Y'all think y'all are doing **** and letting this one ****er define you. GROW UP and DO. SOMETHING. PRODUCTIVE.

 

12 minutes ago, hurricane326 said:

The 2013 British NATSAL study found that gay men typically had 19 sexual partners in a lifetime (median).^[31] In the previous year, 51.8% reported having either 0 or 1 sexual partner. A further 21.3% reported having between 2 and 4 sexual partners, 7.3% reported having between 5 and 9, and 19.6% reported having 10 or more sexual partners.^[31] This reflects previous findings that a minority of gay men have a disproportionate share of all gay sex.^[32]

 

In the United Kingdom, a nationally representative study in 2013 found that 33.9% of heterosexual men had 10 or more lifetime sexual partners. Among men between 45 and 54 years old, 43.1% reported 10 or more sexual partners.^[25]

 

 

Not everyone's a hooker, y'all

 

Thank you for this.

[State of Grace.]

Between the people serving literal homophobes during the 80s here and the ones defening him...I truly dont know where I stand.

 

We're doomed but thankfully my legs are closed.

[Power love]

I’m in tears this story is heartbreaking. We all need to learn how to love ourselves.